My DC were in school until Y5 which was when COVID hit. We realised how much happier they were being home educated and it gave us the space to explore subjects they were interested in.
We de-registered and have home educated ever since - they’re about to turn 15.
However, both DC are autistic.
DS was in special school and never would have sat any exams.
DD was in mainstream but with support, but was already failing as she has an additional language disorder that means she can’t process speech quickly enough to keep up with classroom discussions or oral teaching. She performed really poorly in class tests and probably wouldn’t have coped with secondary. The Ed Psych agreed that mainstream wouldn’t work for her because there was nothing they could put in place to get round her language processing difficulties- but at the same time she didn’t qualify for special school. Visual aids/PECS work well in primary but as learning gets more sophisticated it isn’t enough.
I was also a school governor for 5+ years - teachers are really under pressure to deliver results in the areas that OFSTED deem important. There’s no room for individuality. Teachers have to deliver a very strict curriculum and pupils thrive if they fit into a very narrow box.
Throughout the school year teachers have to monitor the progress each child is making in key areas which is incredibly labour-intensive, even with the assistance of programs. Every child has to be constantly monitored to see if they’re “meeting expectations” as a minimum. It’s all about data, data, data - and you can only get this information from testing children and assessing them.
Of course it’s helpful for teachers to know how a child is performing but I can’t even begin to emphasise the amount of time and effort that goes into collecting, updating, and analysing data - it’s all about statistics rather than true quality of teaching.
As others have said, if your child is gifted or has SEN, or if they need a different style of teaching, they’re not going to fulfil their potential. Many of the SEN pupils will fail and damage their mental health in the process because they’ll know they’re not “good enough”. We don’t support or promote blue collar jobs and very little is done to support children who want to follow this type of career path.
The current system desperately needs a radical overhaul as not many DC truly achieve their full potential, many fail who could succeed, and the pressure on teachers is unsustainable.