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Think I’m going to quit tomorrow after just 2 weeks

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SouthRay · 22/09/2024 08:36

I took redundancy earlier in the year from a 25 year stint in a high pressure sales role. I’ve enjoyed summer off and knew I’d be cautious what work I took up next.
I was approached by an old colleague working at a competing company offering me a perfect arrangement. 3 days a week, a local office, people I already know.
I was very clear in the interview I didn’t want 100% sales hunting role but Account management of existing accounts (don’t mind some new hunting but about 70/30 split) he agreed.
fast forward I’ve arrived and on Thursday finally sat down to go through accounts and sure enough I’m being given all non active accounts to develop,
he knew I wouldn’t be happy as said at lunch we will do the accounts meeting at the end of the day so it’s home time as you will be pissed off…..
In short I feel he hired me without really thinking about what I’d do and it’s clear from the hostility of the other sales guy he wasn’t expecting me.
other red flags, like just not feeling very welcomed, we did a trade a show for 2 days, I had to stay in a different hotel as theirs was booked but they never asked if I’d like to join them for dinner in the evenings or anything. The office is like a library and I don’t really understand why he’s hired me.
i think I’m better to cut my losses and go in tomorrow and call it a day as I don’t want the stress of an unachievable target and having to be out hunting while those 2 sit back. I feel so annoyed that he lied to me.

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changingchaali · 22/09/2024 08:38

Go with your gut. If it's not what you want and it will make you unhappy then leave. You don't owe them anything

Good luck OP

Lindy2 · 22/09/2024 08:54

Tell him exactly what you've put here.

If you don't need this job then you get to choose if you want it or not.

I'd perhaps give them 1 opportunity to make changes before resigning straight away.

LostittoBostik · 22/09/2024 08:57

Definitely say you're quitting as it's not the role you discussed. Say they're clearly looking for someone else.

You might find that this person values you more than you realise and pivots - they may have thought that you were desperate for work now and they could get away with it (scummy behaviour, but a classic sales character thing) and when they realise you're not putting up with it you'll end up with a completely different workload

Ifyoureadthisyousmellofpoo · 22/09/2024 08:59

Go with your gut. They don’t deserve you.

Royalshyness · 22/09/2024 09:01

I’d totally go - this is only going to get worse and he sounds quite a bad mannered person

Offcom · 22/09/2024 09:03

Even if the role was as expected, that thing about isolating you at the trade show is very off in my opinion. Good luck finding something you like and with colleagues who are kind and welcoming!

BunfightBetty · 22/09/2024 09:04

I would have the conversation first. Say that the role isn’t what you expected or agreed and see what they say. You might end up quitting anyway, but equally he might change your role and you can stay. As to the wary/jealous/unfriendly colleagues, unfortunately you’re quite likely to find that elsewhere too.

DrummingMousWife · 22/09/2024 09:41

Leave. It’s not making you happy and it’s not for you

SouthRay · 22/09/2024 10:07

why do a lot of companies not realise first impressions last. On-boarding someone and making them feel welcome, part of the team is soo key in those early weeks yet soo many companies fail at it.
at my previous company alot of the new sales guys would be remote from all over Europe but the UK office was the European HQ so they’d come over in the first few days. I’d always make sure I was in to welcome them, book lunch out for the whole team. Introduce them to everyone, the tools IT set up. Once back remote I’d teams message regularly to say are you ok, let’s have a remote coffee and chat etc. (even though I wasn’t their line manager)

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SouthRay · 22/09/2024 10:54

@Lindy2 normally I’d want to give them a chance but I feel I’ve lost the trust now so can I believe anything he says?

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seven8nine · 22/09/2024 11:02

I agree plan to leave, but I would hang in there until I found another job that is more suitable. If you are a little older (25 years in last job) it's not so easy, dh high earner was made redundant but managed to luckily land on his feet after 7 rejections, many of his friends and ex colleagues in similar situations has not been as lucky. I would sleep on it..

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