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"Too Pretty for Retail" – What Does That Even Mean?

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TheGrinds · 21/09/2024 13:11

Hey all,

Lately, I've had people telling me I "shouldn’t be working in retail" because apparently, I’m "too pretty" and "should be a model." Like, sorry, didn’t realize my face had a career preference! 😂

It’s awkward and kinda frustrating, especially when I’m just trying to do my job (which, by the way, gives me the flexibility I need as a parent).

AIBU for feeling annoyed to get these weird “compliments” that feel more like career advice? How do you respond without just standing there, speechless?

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Bbq1 · 22/09/2024 00:26

TheGrinds · 21/09/2024 13:57

I usually get these comments mainly from women, but recently, a teenage boy started to agree with his mom, making the situation even more awkward.

Really?

distyspies · 22/09/2024 01:06

New2thisshizzle · 21/09/2024 22:31

I was wondering if you were current model height, ie 6ft plus!

You don’t need to be that height to be a model. 5ft 9/10 is pretty common

5ft 7 is minimum. I know because I was just short of it and so stayed beauty modelling (make up and skin care) instead. Kate Moss was/is 5ft 7.

distyspies · 22/09/2024 01:11

TheGrinds
5ft 7, is that tall enough to be a cashier?

Well it's certainly not tall enough to become a model, so that's all right then.

Kate Moss is 5ft 7. She's sometimes credited with leading the way for 'shorter' models of that height.

HeddaGarbled · 22/09/2024 01:20

Oh dear, you poor thing 🙄

Of course it’s a stealth brag, as per PPs.

Notamum12345577 · 22/09/2024 01:28

TheGrinds · 21/09/2024 13:11

Hey all,

Lately, I've had people telling me I "shouldn’t be working in retail" because apparently, I’m "too pretty" and "should be a model." Like, sorry, didn’t realize my face had a career preference! 😂

It’s awkward and kinda frustrating, especially when I’m just trying to do my job (which, by the way, gives me the flexibility I need as a parent).

AIBU for feeling annoyed to get these weird “compliments” that feel more like career advice? How do you respond without just standing there, speechless?

A classic (non)humble brag 😁

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