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Family member awarded enhanced pip - AIBU?

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Orangecrocs · 19/09/2024 15:42

My family member has just been awarded enhanced pip in both living and mobility components.
Shes told me that she’s twisted the truth during the assessment and told the assessor that she has lots of pain and can’t really walk at all, but she walks all the time as I see her out and about - we live in a hilly area. I know people who are in a wheelchair and struggle to get enhanced rate - so I really don’t understand how she’s managed this.
I know people will say mind your own business but she’s told me she’s actually lied to them.

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nextdoornightmares · 19/09/2024 19:33

Efacsen · 19/09/2024 19:26

Won't it be monitored by AI rather than human banking staff?

No idea. I'm not entirely sure what AI can and can't do. But the DWP don't care about individual transactions in the sense of spying on what people are spending their money on and it would be against people's rights to start that kind of level of intrusion.

ilovesooty · 19/09/2024 19:35

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TheRavenSaid · 19/09/2024 19:36

Orangecrocs · 19/09/2024 16:15

She hasn’t been asked for any clinical evidence from her doctor.

They don't just hand out pip.

They will have looked at her records

Thevelvelletes · 19/09/2024 19:37

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 16:22

Oh good. Another disability benefits bashing thread.

Yip those lying disabled schemers.
Sick of reading this pish anyone that's involved in claiming knows the stress of claiming,the constant updates,phone assessments,the ludicrous questions.my wife has a birth defect one leg shorter than the other..was asked is that on one leg or both...DOH!!!.and that's not on top of other physical progressive conditions.

HelpMePlease32 · 19/09/2024 19:39

The thing is with PIP is it is based on your worst days. I get enhanced mobility and standard living. To look at me you would not think there is nothing wrong with me. But I have complex mental health issues and have done for many years, GAD, OCD. I also have fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Some days I can go out and do normal things and then walk 3/4 miles (might take me a very long time due to pain. Some days I can't leave th house due to anxiety, some days I can't drive on my own due to panic and some days I cant get out of bed or put my socks on without help. If she really has bended the truth that that's shameful but if she's based it on her worst days and has more worse days then good days then I don't see an issue.

DejaTu · 19/09/2024 19:39

Certainly, some very heartfelt and sobering stories of just how broken the system is.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 19/09/2024 19:43

NothingWrongButTheFire · 19/09/2024 16:05

It is shameful if true BUT I listened in on my mum's phonecalls and somethings I noticed were that she would too often try to describe her best day, not her worst. She would often underestimate how many of the 'worst' days she has and would over estimate what she could achieve in a day (she does this is real life too and exhausts herself).

If you asked her, she might even joke about over egging the truth to the assessor because she probably genuinely feels like she did - but in reality she didn't. She just feels like she did because she is so keen to put a positive spin on her current siutation and abilities and because it's downright painful for her to think about how much she cannot do for herself day to day.

I heard those phone calls and she lives with me. I know what she can and cannot do each day. She didn't lie and in some cases I don't think she properly represented how hard she has it. I also saw the tears on her face after the calls were finished because, for a little while there, she was forced to look her disability morre or less in the eye and it grieves her.

Sounds as if ypur Mum’s too brave and positive for her own good, Nothing. Thank god she’s got you.

Could you maybe do some role-play, with you as the assessor, to get her to answer more realistically instead of down-playing her problems? She may find it hard to admit how bad it is. But with some gentle encouragement you could help her cope more successfully with her next assessment.

Best of luck to you both.

notatinydancer · 19/09/2024 19:43

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 16:22

Oh good. Another disability benefits bashing thread.

No benefits fraud.

AccountDeleted · 19/09/2024 19:45

Report it. If there is no issue it won’t affect her but if she has actually lied they will catch her out.

There was a woman in the press recently who was claiming enhanced PIP saying she couldn’t walk and was running every day! They recorded her over several days and weeks to prove it wasn’t just a good day.
PIP fraud should be reported as it’s only for people who really are very affected in everyday life by their condition.

Mumandcarer80 · 19/09/2024 19:51

I would wait a few weeks then report her. Some people need a carer with them 24/7 but even they struggle to get enhanced rate. People like her piss me off.

SodaFountainMountain · 19/09/2024 19:52

Tagyoureit · 19/09/2024 16:00

Shameful of her and this is why the country is on its knees, hand outs for those who don't need them.

It is shameful of her, but the country isn’t on its knees because of that, that’s a tired old trope rolled out by certain tabloids. Don’t fall for it.

Thisworldisjustillusion · 19/09/2024 19:53

The problem is how do you weed out the minority who may be exaggerating, without hurting those in genuine need, it's not possible.
Especially with invisible mental health conditions.
I would much rather know that a safety net was spread far and wide, even if it did catch a few who didn't actually need it.
These types of posts are just an attempt to get people worked up about those receiving benefits, so they will welcome any planned future changes to criteria.

ToWhitToWhoo · 19/09/2024 19:53

JasmineTea11 · 19/09/2024 18:12

I loathe the Mail and am a Labour voter, but people have valid questions about the amount of disability benefits being paid out and to whom, because the number has gone up a lot in recent years.
Many people actually know someone claiming PIP well enough to have reasonable questions about it. Myself included;
I know someone well, who is claiming both types of PIP and I'm sure she could work from home (she enjoys many hobbies, which I don't begrudge her) but she sees no reason to bother.
More annoyingly, she recently encouraged her son to claim, (for autism) despite the fact he is very bright, able, active, and just off to take up a good uni place.
Sorry but there's no way he would've been awarded a disability benefit 20 years ago. It's got completely out of hand and saying so isn't bashing disabled people, its bashing a crap system and the people who take advantage of it.

Claiming PIP doesn't mean incapacity for work. It is not an out-of-work benefit. It is to help with the added costs of a disability: e.g. the need to take taxis, or have a specially adapted car, or to pay for help with specific tasks. Many people who claim PIP can work and do work.

PandoraSox · 19/09/2024 19:55

notatinydancer · 19/09/2024 19:43

No benefits fraud.

Have you not read all the posts? As usual for this sort of thread it has sunk into a deep shithole of ableism and scapegoating of people on disability benefits.

The killer is the poster who said neurological conditions are easy to fake.

Have a nice evening.

SilverDoe · 19/09/2024 19:56

SurpriseTwinPregnancy · 19/09/2024 16:38

It might not be much but it’s free money and you still get it even if you’re wealthy, paid NMW or somewhere in between. So in your example they would be better off by choosing to work and fraudulently claiming. It happens.

I know I’ll get lots of hate for what I’m saying and that I must hate disabled people. I don’t. I really, really don’t. I believe in a welfare system. I vote Labour. I believe genuinely disabled people should be fully supported. But I also know that there is PIP fraud and that needs to be addressed.

If you really believed that and knew anything about the information and statistics and context of claiming PIP and the LCW/LCWRA element of UC, you would know that this was a very strange hill to die on, as there are already more than plenty of barriers up for claiming disability benefits, and successful fraudulent cases are extremely low, and it is not a huge, life changing sum of money received.

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 20:03

SilverDoe · 19/09/2024 19:56

If you really believed that and knew anything about the information and statistics and context of claiming PIP and the LCW/LCWRA element of UC, you would know that this was a very strange hill to die on, as there are already more than plenty of barriers up for claiming disability benefits, and successful fraudulent cases are extremely low, and it is not a huge, life changing sum of money received.

And yet successive governments have said the welfare bill needs to be tackled because it’s way too high and the numbers applying for LCWRA and PIP and DLA keep rising and it’s not sustainable any more.

Summerisgoinggreat · 19/09/2024 20:04

Nobodywouldknow · 19/09/2024 16:33

Tbh it’s a pittance as are most benefits. You’d be better off getting a low pressure admin type job that you can do from home if you’re into getting money for doing not very much.

This. I'm in the process of applying for PİP and would much rather be able to do the better paid admin work, if my condition allowed.

I'm also applying for DLA for my daughter and the paediatrician had the cheek to say that a lot of parents seek autism diagnosis just for the benefits. Because the amount you get for DLA really amounts to the number of hours you put into the intense parenting of a neurodiverse child, alongside all the admin which goes into applying for DLA every couple of years. I think people could find much better and easier ways of trying to make a few extra quid a month if they were able to.

rogueone · 19/09/2024 20:04

My DH gets PIP and he had to supply medical reports.

TigerRag · 19/09/2024 20:05

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 20:03

And yet successive governments have said the welfare bill needs to be tackled because it’s way too high and the numbers applying for LCWRA and PIP and DLA keep rising and it’s not sustainable any more.

Edited

Then they need to sort out the waiting lists

Catpuss66 · 19/09/2024 20:10

Kitkat1523 · 19/09/2024 16:12

The thing with PIP at the moment is that, in theory, you don’t actually need any diagnosis or medical evidence…..they very rarely contact your GP …..it’s all based on what you tell them you can and can’t do, with regard to the descriptors…..they either go with what you are telling them or don’t……I have medical evidence but lots don’t….there are changes afoot,these will likely be made public at the November Autumn Statement …..there’s talk of the need for a medical diagnosis and medical evidence ……and stopping a cash handout , instead providing free services ….who knows 🤷‍♀️…..but guessing it will be harder to claim for some….I’m just hoping they leave me alone until my current award runs out in 2027

That’s not true I had to give medical evidence from my consultants, drug lists, proof, not all based on what I said. Then a 2 hour f2f interview. My friend just had brain tumour removed got declined PIP only now asking for reconsideration after her consultant said it was the same as a brain injury. So not easy to get PIP.

Petitchat · 19/09/2024 20:17

HappyChicky23 · 19/09/2024 16:08

I have a friend who’s wife is the same, told them she can’t move, can hardly walk, she does have a wfh job very good pay, husband good pay and they now get enhanced pip as he is her supposed carer and she’s in the pits with all this pain lol lol but somehow she can manage to go to theme parks and in all the rides, holidays, jumping off boats, hot air balloon you name it!!!!!

You ARE allowed to join in activities when you're in pain, although it can be difficult.

I've just "managed" to have a weekend away. I know I look ok sitting at breakfast, walking with my stroller and using the seat on it every few minutes.

But boy, was it a bloody struggle and painful.
Painkillers help.

Try not to be judgemental......

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 20:18

DoTheDinosaurStomp · 19/09/2024 19:30

It can be very frustrating seeing how unfair PIP awards can be. I've had many patients awarded zero when in reality their day to day functioning is so poor and there is no way that they'd be able to hold down a full time job. It really frustrates me.

On the other hand, I have 2 relatives who get PIP, both at the highest rate. One has mental health issues and agoraphobia, cannot leave the house and his PIP application included that he hadn't left the house in 4 years. He's just back from a 10 day trip to New York.

The other relative has pain from arthritis and can apparently barely move. Now I do believe that he suffers from pain, I've seen him wincing a bit at times myself. However he regularly goes fishing and is currently laying down some lovely paving slabs for my cousin. He also walks her 2 dogs twice daily.

I honestly think they'll look at changing the descriptor that so many people seem to get enhanced rates for not being able to leave the house. I'm shocked by the number of people getting it yet when you ring them they always seem to be out and about or on holiday. The whole system needs a shake up and re-assessments done asap, not that that will happen.

Rosscameasdoody · 19/09/2024 20:19

20yearrenovation · 19/09/2024 18:58

This is being petitioned to change too.

Nope. That particular petition closed for lack of support. State pension is administered by the DWP Pensions Service and enshrined in law as a universal, non-means tested benefit available to all, so long as they have made the requisite National Insurance contributions or credits.

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 20:20

Julen7 · 19/09/2024 20:03

And yet successive governments have said the welfare bill needs to be tackled because it’s way too high and the numbers applying for LCWRA and PIP and DLA keep rising and it’s not sustainable any more.

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Rates of people claiming disability benefits and not working due to sickness are way way higher than other comparable European countries. It is unsustainable.

Petitchat · 19/09/2024 20:21

Miley1967 · 19/09/2024 20:18

I honestly think they'll look at changing the descriptor that so many people seem to get enhanced rates for not being able to leave the house. I'm shocked by the number of people getting it yet when you ring them they always seem to be out and about or on holiday. The whole system needs a shake up and re-assessments done asap, not that that will happen.

How DARE they go on holiday??????

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