My husband can be a grump. Of course we all can at times bur his grumps are like something from another level.
He hasn't spoken to me for over 24 hours because I slightly moaned that the coats he had loaded in the boot of the car were in the way of all the bags that needed to be loaded first. I didn't moan at him it was more a FGS this boot is tiny and our pile of coats is taking all the space up. He then declared that he wasn't helping load the car from the weekend away as I clearly had to do everything myself. I loaded the car while he sat on his arse. Then I took the rubbish to the bins before we set off for the beach then home. He didn't speak a word to me yesterday from 11am until bedtime and today only said 'what time am I taking ds to football' that's it.
I'm lost. Its not the first time he's blown over nothing. My two older kids 17 and 12 are noticing that it's not normal and my 2 younger kids are a bit bemused by it all.
I promised my oldest that I would never leave his dad - he used to get very upset over arguments etc- he's now old enough to understand. I just can't decide whether to suck up the negatives for the sake of the kids having a fairly stable home life... or if its time to pull the plug.