I have a 16 month old and have been struggling quite badly since he was born, no family help, husband works away, it’s been pretty tough. I’ve not felt myself for a long time now but I guess I was coping ok on a day to day basis.
I unexpectedly fount out I was pregnant which really sent me into a spiral. No idea how I’ll manage another child, I found the newborn phase hell - breastfeeding was awful. I’ve been in a constant state of panic and anxiety since I found out.
Eventually DH convinced me to go to doctor, they’ve basically diagnosed me with PND. Suppose I’m not surprised by this.
They’ve offered Sertraline straight away as an immediate fix. I’m really wary of taking this when pregnant, I’ve read about heart defects and possible symptoms of withdrawal for baby when born which horrifies me. The doctor has basically jumped straight to medication and not really recommended any other treatment.
I guess I’m just trying to find out from anyone if they’ve been in similar position of have any experience of this. It’s killing me having to make a decision like this, the thought of taking the medication while pregnant is making me ill but I also know I can’t go on like this for much longer and also worried about how I’ll cope in newborn period if I just leave it how it is.