No wonder OP left the chat, opinions can become out of hand
Maybe OP has known this person for years, had a great ten years of friendship but are growing apart, most folk use friend loosely these days anyway
The cost of the house is irrelevant, also the cost of a house is not the same across the UK, if you can navigate to mumsnet you can navigate to rightmove to check
Maybe the benefit fraudster has told OP she is claiming and working off the books
While how people live is not your business, do you feel happy paying your taxes which fraudsters benefit from
That money could be spent elsewhere
Mayb the fraudster brags and puts others down thinking they are superior to tax payers and can do what they want, so needs knocking down a peg or two
People say mind your business, but if a neighbour you call a friend started abusing their dog, would you still mind your own business
Its a difficult desision
And i think you shouldnt be in that posistion in the first place, if more checks were done with claimers then people wouldnt commit fraud (as much)
Most working class cannot afford luxurys so to see you are paying for their holidays, you may aswell give them some spening money too