I started a new job a few months ago and today I asked for some time off in the half term in February next year, I have always been used to just asking my manager and getting an answer either way and been quite lucky to be able to get the time off that I needed to go on holiday with family.
When I asked today my new boss said he hasn't even thought as far ahead as February yet and said that he didn't know yet and was quite abrupt and arsey about it.
The thing is I need to know so I can book a holiday around school holiday time and I was a bit taken aback that I almost felt like I shouldn't be asking.
I'm quite an anxious person and I'm now worried and left feeling anxious that I have to wait (and dare not even ask again) for my boss to come back to me when they are ready with an answer.
Is this the norm in workplaces? Have I just been lucky before being able to have holidays without an issue?