Aswell as the feeding thing when I'm on a diet. I'm a fully grown adult in her 30s, my dad is I think a narcissist perhaps, always puts you down but I don't know if it is me or if it is him, always seems to be in a joking way. He seems to just have a way of making me feel down. He's also quite nice, like today I've been around and he says he will make me some food to take home. I said it's ok as I'm on a calorie counting diet I've just started so I won't take it as won't be able to know the calorie content. About an hour later I'm offered a high calorie drink, I just take it, but say I won't be able to have dinner now as a joke. For the last 2years I have had a class I go to on a Sunday and it is a good excuse for me to go home as my parents always want to guilt me into being with them. Today, I say I am about to go at about 4 as I have to be at my class, my dad is acting disappointed, as he's put dinner on, and said hed made some for me. I explained, I've had my class for 2 years and I didn't bother explaining about my diet... As for some reason I don't want to feel ungrateful🙄. Then he proceeds to offer me tasters. Ahhh what am I meant to do... Am I ungrateful? I said thanks, I could take it home as he said he's cooked loads now... If I try and put my foot down I'm just felt like I'm ungrateful, but it's not out right said to me, so is it me or him? I've done these calorie counting diets a few times, I have no way to count it. He always does this, tells me things are healthy but massive portions and full of oil, I can't calorie count it. It really gets me down and feels like it's not a coincidence, every time I try and change I'll get offered loads of stuff now in the coming months...