Does your OH tell you when to go to bed?
If they do, is it reasonable that they get angry, swear at you, and tell you are childish when you don't comply?
Have other issues, another example, was chopping veg, told, by OH, from sofa, that I wasn't doing it correctly. I said gently...I'm fine thanks, they continued...I had to repeat myself at least three times, that I knew how to chop x, but thanks. Again, told I was unreasonable.
Feeling done, again, in this relationship.