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43 period is like I’m in labour

36 replies

Timelessp · 01/09/2024 11:32

Ibuprofen and paracetamol not touching the sides I genuinely feel like I’m in labour with contractions (im 100% not pregnant unless im the Virgin Mary)
ia this normal for my age? Periods are becoming shorter and no steady flow
gone from a 32 day cycle to 27/28 days
I want to cry

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vladimirVsvolodymr · 01/09/2024 12:57

@FloofPaws thanks, I think the product name got cut off. My GP is suggesting estradiol testing between day 2-5 of periods. Changing cervix how lovely 🙈
@Timelessp hope you feel better soon, I've just taken some ibuprofen.

marmiteoneverything · 01/09/2024 13:08

Gatecrashermum · 01/09/2024 12:28

Go to A&E. This isnt normal. They can give you stronger painkillers - you probably need a scan to exclude kidney stones.

It may be you have endometriosis- this might be a route to getting diagnosed (it's how i got a diagnosis)

I was going to say that. Perhaps I’m being naive, but surely pain severe enough to make you scream in pain warrants a trip to A&E? For a start, you don’t actually know if it is your period causing the pain?

marmiteoneverything · 01/09/2024 13:08

Gatecrashermum · 01/09/2024 12:28

Go to A&E. This isnt normal. They can give you stronger painkillers - you probably need a scan to exclude kidney stones.

It may be you have endometriosis- this might be a route to getting diagnosed (it's how i got a diagnosis)

I was going to say that. Perhaps I’m being naive, but surely pain severe enough to make you scream in pain warrants a trip to A&E? For a start, you don’t actually know if it is your period causing the pain?

Oceangreyscale · 01/09/2024 13:16

My periods felt like that when I was a teenager. Mefenaic Acid on prescription helped but there might be better options now. They were literally as bad as my labours were, at least until the later stages.

But I would also see a GP in case there's another reason.

spikeandbuffy24 · 01/09/2024 13:26

This started with me age 38 and it turned out to be stage 4 endometriosis

Things that help me
Hot water on my back and stomach (shower)
Heat pads
Be you patches
Kind of child pose yoga or on all fours rocking
Codeine

spikeandbuffy24 · 01/09/2024 13:27

Oh and I have mefanamic acid now to take too
I still have days where it is screaming in pain but I don't go to a&e as
I can't actually move
They can't do anything
Waiting for excision on my endo

ZedDead · 01/09/2024 13:30

They did a scan for me and it turned out to be endometriosis and adenomyosis

First time I've ever genuinely seen my doctor being properly sympathetic

I take buscopan and ponstan forte when it's bad but it still takes half a day to kick in

I had to go on all fours and chew down on something last month - at least with giving birth there's a baby at the end of the pain!

vladimirVsvolodymr · 01/09/2024 13:44

Can I ask if anyone experiencing these have had a c section?

spikeandbuffy24 · 01/09/2024 13:59

ZedDead · 01/09/2024 13:30

They did a scan for me and it turned out to be endometriosis and adenomyosis

First time I've ever genuinely seen my doctor being properly sympathetic

I take buscopan and ponstan forte when it's bad but it still takes half a day to kick in

I had to go on all fours and chew down on something last month - at least with giving birth there's a baby at the end of the pain!

For me it's so random too
Once I was sat working away and next minute, bang
Had to ring my manager and say I'm going off sick and they were "oh what's wrong? Could you just?"
No, I need to go off the phone to scream!

Puppupandaway · 01/09/2024 14:08

Before I had my children, my endometriosis used to make the tops of my legs hurt during periods. I used to put a hot water bottle on them. My endo seemed to settle down after childbirth, but my PCOS went into overdrive instead. We can't win as women!

ZedDead · 01/09/2024 14:34

No Caesarian for me - 2 vaginal births which tbh were nothing compared to this pain!

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