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To ask what's your stupidity tax?

114 replies

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 07:04

Stupidity tax - something you have done that's ended up costing you financially or emotionally.

I'll go first.

I'm in the house one Friday night with dh and the kids. Eldest has a friend over who I offer to drive home. Can't find the car keys anywhere. I nip out to the car (I have form for leaving the car unlocked) discover that not only is the car unlocked but the keys are in the ignition switch on (as in lights and radio should be on but engine is not running). Probably been like that around five hours so the battery is completely dead.
Dh cannot revive the dead battery so end up paying ££ To increase our emergency cover to include home start and £££ for a new battery.
All in all a pretty expensive mistake. This sort of thing happen to anyone else?

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MrsMoastyToasty · 31/08/2024 09:15

Driving the last few yards of the bus lane. I wasn't driving a bus...

Auburngal · 31/08/2024 09:19

When my ex and I went on holiday one of us booked and paid for the flights and one paid for hotels.

I booked the hotel for Prague and I was working and he had a day off. He booked the flights and forwarded the email. He booked for Paris!!! As the drop down menu Paris is before Prague as listed alphabetically. Texted him that he's a muppet for booking Paris, not Prague.

Got home and couldn't book the flight to Prague as fully booked. Changed it to 2 days later. That was about £160 more for admin and that the flights (both ways) two days later were more expensive. Tried to rebook the hotel and full on the last two days. So ended up with a hotel that cost about another £20 more a night. Could have booked cheaper hotels but they were well out of the city centre. Don't want to be wasting 45 mins going into central Prague and back each time.

So our bargain break to Prague cost us another £240, about two thirds more than if he bloody checked which flight he originally booked.

Oreosandwich · 31/08/2024 09:24

Buying food every 1 or 2 days from Co-op instead of meal planning and doing a big shop from Aldi or Lidl.

DadJoke · 31/08/2024 09:25

Couldn’t find my passport before a holiday. Had to book an overnight trip to get a new emergency passport - cost a fortune. When I got back, found the old passport tucked into the side pocket of the carry on luggage.

CharSiu · 31/08/2024 09:25

We lost the car keys to our hire car in Spain. We had to pay £50 but as this was 1998 it was a lot more back then. We paid on credit card but it was still the machines with paper that you signed. They never ever cashed in that piece of paper assumed they lost it so they paid stupidity tax on our stupidity tax.

NotSmallButFunSize · 31/08/2024 09:25

Saying over and over "we must get breakdown cover" and not, then getting a puncture and having to pay nearly £200 on emergency call out to patch it and then also buy new tires.

Was so pissed off with myself

Auburngal · 31/08/2024 09:25

weddingcaketopper · 31/08/2024 07:32

DH somehow managed to chuck our 'main car' spare car key in the tip last year! No idea why he had the key or how it ended up there... he was driving our older car which we use for tip runs. Bought air tags for our keys after this incident

A family friend decided to take the old washer or fridge to the tip as refused to pay £20 for the old one taken away by the retailer and £25 for bulky waste from the council.

On unloading the item at the tip, he damaged the boot lock. Cost to repair that - £120.

marmaladian · 31/08/2024 09:28

Letting my DP who is a classic "champagne lifestyle" but in his case zero income, almost 20 years now and I'm broke.

80smonster · 31/08/2024 09:28

My husband.

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:46

Spookypoo · 31/08/2024 07:20

I’m definitely a higher rate stupidity tax payer…

Recently had a very satisfying day decluttering the house with multiple trips to the tip. I hadn’t looked at my phone all day and couldn’t find it in the evening so asked my DH to do a ‘locate my’ on his phone - phone was in a massive, stinking skip at the tip with no way of getting it out. My previous phone had been put in the washing machine.

OP yes also been there with the car and dead battery. We camped in a beautiful remote spot in Scotland and had the car doors open to give some light. Next day flat battery and no reception.

Oh god that's awful

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:48

Heatherbell1978 · 31/08/2024 07:56

I'm liking this thread. Not sure it's quite the same but now that I've discovered Vinted for buying kids clothes, I can safely say I've wasted hundreds, thousands maybe on clothes and kid stuff (especially baby) that I could have just bought second hand. I was swept along on the wave of shiny new things for far too long...

Same!

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:49

Conniebygaslight · 31/08/2024 08:25

We were upgrading our sofa, DH worked with a guy, just starting out so offered him our old one FOC. Young guy very appreciative and said yes. Young guy lived 40 miles from us, had no transport. We borrowed a friends van, paid for petrol, drove and delivered the sofa. We then bought the van owner a bottle of nice wine for allowing us to borrow said van. Young guy, didn’t lift a finger or pay a penny towards anything and wasn’t remotely inconvenienced. Just sat happily on his freshly cleaned sofa. 🙈🙈🤣

A good deed at least !

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autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:52

Wigtopia · 31/08/2024 09:03

Not ordering the bag of dog food online in time because I forgot about the bank holiday Monday. She wouldn’t have had enough so I had to buy an extra bag from the local shop which is more pricey per kg (online I get a 12kg bag delivered, but the shop only stocks 2kg bags).

the bit that makes it more annoying is that it’s not even the first time I’ve done it!

We order dog food online and and at least 3 times I've thought I paid and after a few days waiting for delivery discover I haven't! Cue paying £6 for next day delivery and a trip to the shop to spend £12 on a 2kg bag

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whereimfrom · 31/08/2024 16:54

DogDaysNeverEnd · 31/08/2024 09:03

Putting the wrong car reg into parking app, so not only paying for parking (albeit for friend's car that was not there) but also having to pay the £25 fine for not having paid for parking for the car actually in the car park. It's a relatively small amount but insanely frustrating stupidity tax!

I've done this. In my defence it was my 1st day back from maternity leave & I was frazzled 😂

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:58

I booked a weekend away a few years ago couldn't find my car keys and didn't have a spare. Couldn't go and lost the caravan cost. They turned up a few days later in a umbrella 😩

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BlackCatsAreBrilliant · 31/08/2024 17:07

Forgot to set up insurance for the new cat as she came with temporary cover and I forgot to renew it after it expired. Cat got hit by a car (we assume). Fortunately, the injuries were not too severe, but the emergency vet trip and the treatment needed was £££.

Good thing she's cute.

minnieot · 31/08/2024 17:10

In hospital a lot for my current pregnancy and keep forgetting to pay for parking. Somehow have only been fined once so far but it wouldn't surprise me if I get more. This post just reminded me to go on and pay for today's parking as I completely forgot again so thank you

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 17:15

Dog got into teens room and ate 1kg of chocolate 🍫 Cost £275 for emergency vet

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JohnCravensNewsround · 31/08/2024 17:19

Took bike rack off back of car as we were told that there was a spate of them being nicked whilst people were cycling. Put it in the boot, slammed the boot, broke the rear windscreen.
Idiot tax indeed

SmudgeButt · 31/08/2024 17:23

The time I was a supervisor of a large team and the vast majority of us went out for a team meal.

Bill came at the end of the evening and I said I'd put it all on my credit card and everyone could just pass me their cash. Which they did along with a bit extra for the tip.

I looked at the total on the bill, thought about the wonderful service we'd had and added 15% to what I paid. Didn't spot the bit about them automatically adding a service charge for a group like ours so I effectively tipped them 35%.

Newrumpus · 31/08/2024 17:31

I unwittingly clicked repeat order on Ocado when I bought a large monthly shop. The following month I made a new order which came but the following day the repeat order also turned up so we had 2 large shops in 2 days. The really embarrassing thing is that I didn’t realise what the issue was so I made the same mistake again in the third month.

zeddybrek · 31/08/2024 17:42

Travelling with 2 year old DS and 6 months old DD. No other adults. Went to the airport for long haul flight to visit family. Totally forgot about visas and had to pay for overnight luggage storage at Heathrow, emergency 24 hour visa service x3 and new flights as original ones were non transferable non refundable. I got once a year so know but just totally forgot. I did something similar again 5 years later, I just don't learn.

Stupid travel tax, repeat offender.

Icannoteven · 31/08/2024 17:43

I have innatentive ADHD so I am a high rate stupidity tax payer.

I have spent twenty years paying for driving lessons and still can’t pass my test. I recently flooded my house because I left a tap running and did £6000 worth of damage (the insurance covered it but I still had to take annual leave to sort everything). I have travelled to appointments and events in the wrong day - a complete waste of time and money! I impulse buy. In my younger days I was always late handing in my time sheets or paying my bills so would I cure charges/ not get paid on time. Then there are the many, many items I have lost (usually glasses, keys, phones and bank cards).

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 31/08/2024 17:52

My sisters was, when coming to the end of a long stay here from Australia she decided to wash her cream kipling style bag. But her passport was in it. So unscheduled rush trip to London, cheaper if I came with dd on railcard, a day and a half sitting around Australia house, new photos new pp and overnight stay.

Conniebygaslight · 31/08/2024 17:54

autienotnaughty · 31/08/2024 16:49

A good deed at least !

Yes it was…