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AIBU to not show up to a meeting if I know I'm being sacked.

129 replies

Risingsun93 · 28/08/2024 16:43

I guess im looking for insights on this topic generally because I have never been dismissed before. Ok so for context I'm on a fixed-term 0 hour contract. It comes to an end on 30th November which is exactly 2 years.
Its been a good ride, great money with flexibility and I'm really upset (although not surprised) I just hoped there might be a further opportunity for me. I've engaged as much as possible and even done valuable training in the field to up my chances and shared this with them. Today I got an invite to a meeting that says "This meeting’s purpose is to consult with you because the contract on which you are working will come to an end on 30th November 2024 and no alternative funding or project has been identified and the University cannot provide internal funding." Therefore I know thw outcome is that I'm being dismissed. I know burning bridges is not good and I should swallow my pride but it's a real kick in teeth going to a meeting to be formally told I'm sacked when I know I am.

OP posts:
Spicastar · 03/09/2024 10:15

Yes it sucks but you're NOT being sacked. You've known for two years that you're on a fixed term contact that's now ending. Being sacked means your contract is terminated early, or ended if it's a permanent position.

Don't ruin your chances for future work with them, and good references for other employers.

parkrun500club · 03/09/2024 10:23

A rare AIBU where everyone is saying the same thing!

Go to the meeting. Be professional and constructive and maybe another opportunity will present itself.

Campergirls1 · 03/09/2024 10:24

Leaving with positivity, thanking them for the great opportunity never goes amiss.

You would be amazed at how many people get a recall when another opening arises.

Best of luck to you.

NoThanksymm · 04/09/2024 18:28

If you had/have sick time or something then draw it out a bit! You are entitled to that time. And I’m sure you’re not feeling the best right now!

otherwise like others have said, go. Be gracious, get the next contract that you can. Point out you’re super disappointed, all the ways you’ve contributed above and beyond. Use it as the interview for the next one, get a name hire - hopefully soon!

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