Context my partner moved to my country when we met, we have 3 kids together and I have a child from previous relationship. His parents come visit every few months. In the 6 years we have been in this house we have only had 2 christmases just the 2 of us and the kids, his parents have been the other 4 and are quite overpowering.
So I was driving my partner to work the other night and he went oh I forgot to tell you, my mum and dad are coming for Christmas, I asked him if he had invited them and he said no, they just told him they’d booked a hotel.
Now I wasn’t pleased they had just invited themselves and not asked if we were ok with it. But then chatting to my eldest last night he told me that he’d been talking to partners mum
and she told him and my partner had invited them and he was the one booked the hotel for them.
Aibu to be pissed by this? This maybe sound a stretch but if he’s lying to me about this (a reasonably small thing) then how don’t know he’s not lied about bigger things that have caused issues in the past that he has denied.