To worry about where the relationship is going?

[LilacWriter]

Ive been with my partner for 10 months and we are both early 30s.

A while ago he mentioned his parents would be visiting (he is from another country in Europe) but never said more about it. I asked him if he'd made a plan yet (it's in a month) and he said no.

I have another event I've been invited to and I want to meet them so I brought it up as though I thought I might meet them. He said he hadn't thought about it yet but it was a possibility and he was yet to make a plan. They have already said they want to meet me so I don't know why he isn't more keen.

Later, I started to bring up a future talk and he said he's up for living together at some point but there's no rush.

We're early 30s with me two years older than him so I am a bit worried I'll be strung along. He is divorced also.

You may well be strung along but neither of the things you mentioned necessarily mean that.
I've been living with my partner for years now and, honestly, I am not even entirely sure his parents know of my existence. But I met his siblings, friends and his child from a previous relationship. I feel quite secure in my relationship and don't feel like I am missing out on the whole parents thing.
10 months is a bit early to think about moving in together as well.

In contrast, my ex met my parents about a year after being together. I met his parents maybe 4 months in. This didn't really make any difference to the longevity of our relationship which fell apart after 5 years (and cracks were showing much earlier than this).

It doesn't sound like it's a problem to me. He seems laid back which I like in a person. No Red Flags here as far as I can see.

I think at 10 months in, it could go either way. How long ago was his divorce?