Hi!
I know nobody can really tell me what to do, but just wondered if someone could maybe offer some advice or help or anything basically haha. I don’t have anyone in real life who I can talk to about this and i honestly don’t know what to do!
I’ve always been very career focused, and the job I’ve picked requires a lot of studying and exams etc. So my love life has always taken a back seat in my life (which is why this is all a bit new to me and I’ve no idea what to do, even though I’m in my mid 20s!)
basically I’ve got lots of guy friends, so sometimes it’s a bit tricky to know if someone likes me back or not or if we’re just friends because we all just get on so well and I’ve always been friends with lots of boys. But there’s someone I know through work/studies who I get on with really well, and I actually really like him. We get on so well and have banter together but I don’t know if that’s just because we’re great work friends or not. I don’t know how to find out really without asking him how he feels or asking him on a date etc but then I’m worried it might damage our friendship and cause awkwardness at work if he doesn’t feel the same way. As a further complexity he’s from a completely different culture and I think he was ideally looking for a girlfriend from the same culture/country as him which I’m not.
But we get on so well and I just don’t know what to do!
sorry, I know nobody can tell me either way what to do, but just wondered if anyone could advise or if anyone had any personal advice from their own experiences? Thanks so much in advance x