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To think she’s lying? Or do companies really do this?

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BlazingSunsh · 23/08/2024 20:10

A friend I have got closer to over recent months told me that she fell out with her employer, a law firm, and was paid 70k if she agreed to leave without further fuss. She was on 90k at the time. The dispute was over her workload/what she had been given and how she felt she had been blocked to progress. The company disagreed but wanted her to leave so apparently offered this? I find this totally unbelievable?! 70k with no tax? Do these things happen?! If so I want to try it as that’s basically two years of my entire income after tax!

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Hectorscalling · 23/08/2024 20:20

BlazingSunsh · 23/08/2024 20:15

@FriendlyNeighbourhoodAccountant well my friend has no real basis to complain, it was very much embellished and she admitted that as it was going on!

Part of her complaint was that her progress was blocked.

The company may have actually done that. And if thetes any hint they did taht eb ause she was a woman, it makes sense to pay her off. Usually a bigger pay out is when the company isn't certain they did everything correctly and that a tribunal would be costly for them.

She may say it's embellished. But she doesn't know what conversations or other things have happened, that she doesn't know about. They may believe she could claim sex discrimination and so paid her off. Since there's a lot of sexist behaviour in the corporate world, wouldn't surprise me if they thought she might win.

DrFoxtrot · 23/08/2024 20:21

I want to point out that my last post was not aimed at anyone legitimately taking a company to tribunal!

We had someone take us to tribunal and we won, we paid them the necessary notice and leave payments and they bragged locally about the 'payout' they'd been awarded!

Sorry about using my personal experience to cloud my posts in this way!

Flyonthewall01 · 23/08/2024 20:21

Yes did this with someone on my team. She went on long term sick leave just as she was about to be fired so it was cheaper to get her to agree to go with a golden handshake then to fire her on sick leave and risk tribunal/ continue to pay her sick pay

Notonthesamepage · 23/08/2024 20:25

Once you are sufficiently senior, you just don't walk with nothing. Compromise agreements are pretty standard, even expected. Often get to keep their shares too so paid out under share plans several years after leaving!

Hectorscalling · 23/08/2024 20:25

The other thing to think about though, is future employment.

I know someone who did this. And could get another law firm to take her on.

Cherandcheralike · 23/08/2024 20:26

We had someone do this although less money. He was threatening people at work but we couldn't prove any of it then saying he was being discriminated against. Really pissed me off because tribunals are there to protect those who need it, not to give poor performers a payout when they get found out.

Allie47 · 23/08/2024 20:28

Yes it happens all the time, I handled a dozen of these agreements last year but not for that amount. Only the first 30k is tax free though.

EveryKneeShallBow · 23/08/2024 20:29

I left a job in 2012 for one year’s salary and my legal fees paid.

Lovethat · 23/08/2024 20:31

The first £30000 of your lump sum is tax free.

My company put me on garden leave for 3 months so I paid tax on 3 months salary, they also gave me a further 4 months salary as a lump sum, approx £25000. So entirely possible your friend had that lump sum.

BIossomtoes · 23/08/2024 20:32

Tigger1895 · 23/08/2024 20:15

She could be on gardening leave, which means she’s unable to work for anyone else for 3-6 months

You can have two employers simultaneously. You just have to pay tax on everything you earn in the second one.

sunseaandsoundingoff · 23/08/2024 20:33

Wait till you find out that in big tech companies some people are hired without the company even having or intending to ever have a job for them, they pay them a salary and get them on the books purely because they don't want a competitor to have them. They do no work and get paid to be at home doing whatever they like.

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 23/08/2024 20:33

BlazingSunsh · 23/08/2024 20:14

@Hectorscalling what on earth

Someone tell me what fuss I have to make to get one of these 😂

You understand you then have NO JOB? You can't live off that amount of money for long and you also forgo bonuses and pension contributions. So nobody wants to actually put themselves out of a job.

DinnaeFashYersel · 23/08/2024 20:33

It's called a settlement agreement.

It's usually cheaper and less hassle than performance management and a disciplinary process. And no risk of a tribunal at the end.

Those I've been involved with usually pay out about 6 months salary plus notice.

Tax must be paid on notice pay and an compensation over £30k.

Mumofoneandone · 23/08/2024 20:34

Taxed over £30k but equally she shouldn't be discussing it with anyone! Settlement agreement usually involve non disclosure clause. Very unwise of your friend - company could go after her for the money back, compensation re reputational damage.

HelloItsMeAgainHello · 23/08/2024 20:35

In my company the payment is one year salary, plus paid for the amount of the notice period plus any accrued leave. So on a 70k salary 90k is about right.
But only the first 30k is tax free

Blarn · 23/08/2024 20:43

Yes, happened to dh. He had to agree not to go to an employment tribunal which would have found in his favour but by that point had had enough so took the money. It was taxed though.

BirthdeighParteigh · 23/08/2024 20:47

I wouldn’t be going anywhere for less than 6m salary - 12m if I’d got dirt on my employer.

Odiebay · 23/08/2024 20:49

We paid nearly £500k to our head of legal to get her out. To this day I'd love to know what she had on the company

AKAanothername · 23/08/2024 20:52

I had one of these, luckily for me I'd been running the payroll for years so I knew the value of previous 'compromise agreements'. I was supposedly made redundant but walked away with three years salary, the first £30k was tax-free but the rest was taxable.

Lillers · 23/08/2024 20:54

This happened to a friend of mine, also a lawyer. Raised a complaint of discrimination (he was leader of the company’s LGBT society). Paid off a decent amount, but his name was mud in the industry for a few months and it took him nearly a year to find another position. Not all sunshine and roses when you’re dealing with the rich and powerful unfortunately.

theduchessofspork · 23/08/2024 20:57

Yes it’s quite common. Though I think as PPs say over 30k and it’s taxed - same as redundancy

MrsPinkCock · 23/08/2024 20:57

I’m an employment lawyer and I deal with Settlement Agreements daily.

The lowest few were for £1. The highest was £600k, which involved getting pre clearance from HMRC for most of the money to be paid tax free.

But generally speaking, 6 months net is a common amount. 70k wouldn’t be tax free and the company must have had some legal liability to go that high.

LadyGnome · 23/08/2024 20:58

Very common in the City and Law firms. In the City it’s not uncommon to get well over 12 months salary and some gardening leave and an agreed reference.

Mind you people in the City would normally hire a lawyer to negotiate for them then get the firm to play the legal fees too.

IDontLikeMondays88 · 23/08/2024 20:59

Yes this does happen in law firms.

namenamification · 23/08/2024 21:03

The flip side is if the person doesn’t take the compromise offer, and doesn’t have enough dirt on the company, they will find themselves on a PIP and end up leaving with next to nothing.