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To let my 15yo son inter-rail around Europe for 3 weeks with his 16yo pal?

105 replies

Carebearsonmybed · 20/08/2024 18:26

They will visit Paris Brussels, Amsterdam, Berlin, Munich, Marseille, Toulouse, Barcelona & Madrid.

It's perfectly safe, right?

OP posts:
Timeforaglassofwine · 20/08/2024 18:27

Really?

Bsmirched · 20/08/2024 18:27

Hello Kirsty

Glowingreviews · 20/08/2024 18:27

Absolutely not. Not at the age of fifteen. He’s still a child.

MrsSchrute · 20/08/2024 18:27

Kirsty Allsop tweet?

Tristar15 · 20/08/2024 18:27

Bsmirched · 20/08/2024 18:27

Hello Kirsty

😂

BeSpoonyAquaHare · 20/08/2024 18:28

I know you’re just having a whinge about Kirstie Allsop but there’s already a thread for that and also in all honesty I know at least a handful of 15yos who, with the right safety net, would be absolutely fine on an interrail trip so I don’t really get all the outrage.

WhereDoWeGoFromHereBill · 20/08/2024 18:32

As long as he is 16 tomorrow, has stacks of money behind and good contacts - he will be fine

40andlovelife · 20/08/2024 18:33

'I wouldnt let my 15 year old daughter do this '

Jemimapinotduck · 20/08/2024 18:34

Nope nope nopety nope nope

F1reLine · 20/08/2024 18:35

Yes I would. I did similar.

Teddleshon · 20/08/2024 18:37

I just can't imagine a 15 year old enjoying it that much. People inter railing and staying in hostels are pretty much all 18 plus and meeting up in bars and nightclubs etc in the evenings.

nutella8 · 20/08/2024 18:39

Ha... you are joking right?

TheClawDecides · 20/08/2024 18:39

🤣🤣🤣

Westfacing · 20/08/2024 18:43

Depends on the child - my DGD(15) could do this with a pal, but DGS(18) I'm not so sure!

If they have access to money, and the confidence, most teens could inter-rail around Europe quite safely.

Kitkatfiend31 · 20/08/2024 19:05

No.

Trickabrick · 20/08/2024 19:24

OP, please post a list of some of your parenting decisions so us randomers on the internet can judge them without having access to all the facts.

DeliciousApples · 20/08/2024 19:29

Hard no from me.

Some 15 year olds would be able to get the regular train into the town centre let alone trains further afield let alone going abroad where is something goes wrong they've had it - it could literally be life and death.

Xacademic · 20/08/2024 19:30

I'm going to start calling it 'interrailing'
Rather than just using public transport to move between friends houses.

LizzeyBenett · 20/08/2024 19:44

Way too young are you crazy ! 18 is young enough anything could happen . His forbid say they needed inhospitable they would need a legal guardian at that age still considered a child .

Ace56 · 20/08/2024 19:47

I feel like I’m out the loop on this - did Kirsty really let her child do this?!

Ofc 15/16 is too young. 18 fine.

PonyPatter44 · 20/08/2024 19:49

Firstly, sod off Kirsty. Your stupid hair and silly voice, and complete inability to read the room all really annoy me. Also, your decorating "tips" are ugly.

Secondly, not unreasonable at all. If the kid is sensible and with an equally sensible friend, why not? It is a bit young, perhaps, but they seem to have had a good time. Also, they had the absolute privilege of wealth, which is being able to pick up the phone ANYWHERE and say, "mum, come and get us", and she'd be there in hours.

Elsvieta · 20/08/2024 20:36

And stay where? What hotels / hostels allow two kids under 18 to stay alone?

No, they're too young. Foreign travel without parents is for adults - 18+.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 20/08/2024 20:39

Of course I would. I could make endless tweets (or is it X's now?) about it, until I disappeared up my own Location.

NotSmallButFunSize · 20/08/2024 20:44

He went, it was fine, he came home in one piece.

What's the issue here??

PoliteOtter · 20/08/2024 20:50

I know this is about Kirsty. But my Dad cycled to Europe when he was 16 with a friend. It was the 60s though. But then again, he probably only wrote a postcard home, if that. I’d personally worry (a lot) about my midteen Interrailing. But I’d at least be able to track them and give them money.