My youngest is just about to go to uni. Eldest is already there. I’m school admin term time only so very low paid. This didn’t matter hugely when they were young as the advantages of being off in the school holidays with them balanced out all the (many, actually) disadvantages. We never could afford to go abroad so just went self catering for many years, often with family to make it seem less like “same shit, different place”!
Gradually it has become a huge general ball ache having my kind of job. Started with them not wanting to hang out with me much during the holidays by about 14. I don’t know many others who are term time only so rarely was off at the same time as others so it got quite boring.
As they’ve become older teenagers the holiday restrictions have got REALLY annoying. It’s not just the inflated prices. It’s the choice about WHEN you are off. You can’t even do weekends away with your other half easily, or some weddings, as no chance of a half day on Friday or Monday. It’s quite restricting. I’ve done the 6.30pm flight and late night return on a Sunday (or Monday if BH) and it’s fucking rushed and tiring once you get to a certain age . If you go by car somewhere you can’t get very far in a couple of hours. or you end up getting there well after everyone else in your group has arrived and you feel you’ve missed out . For my mum’s big birthday family weekend I was the last to arrive and first to leave, just because I don’t have an annual leave allowance.
With 2 young adults at uni whose start and ends of term don’t align with mine it’s annoying if you want to pay them a visit during their term time.
it’s other things as well, can’t take any time off to go to a funeral (without a load of hassle), take a parent or other relative to a health appointment, go for a job interview without your manager knowing, sit in the house for a tradesman etc.
But yes, the school holiday price difference is now much worse than it’s ever been. much worse. (Thankyou, dynamic pricing). And when you do go away everywhere is chocka and full of kids, which you no longer want, but neither are you ready for a Saga holiday 😆
for anyone working in a school for childcare reasons (especially if in a low paid role) my advice would be to get out before you get to this stage! As it stands now I’m hoping to retire early in a few years (thanks to an inheritance, no thanks to my extremely crap local government pension!) and I relish the thought of affordable holidays at the dates of my choosing, when it’s much less crowded.