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Giving experience vouchers that don't cover the full cost of the experience

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saltycashew · 19/08/2024 10:39

I was recently given a £50 voucher by a group of friends for an experience / days out website. While it was a very lovely and generous gesture, I've gone to the website to redeem it for an experience that I want only to discover that there is nothing available to the value of £50 for me to redeem towards.

The £50 experiences are only available to book as a pair (price per person) - so essentially £100, not £50.

The other experiences I'm interested in are all half or full days and run £135-£175 which would mean I'd need to come up with and cover the remainder myself. I can't afford that at the moment.

I really don't intend for this to sound ungrateful because it was a very thoughtful gesture. I feel bad that my friends have essentially wasted their money on something I may not be able to use and enjoy before it expires.

AIBU to be frustrated by gifts like this when there's limited choice on what can be redeemed?

*I'm specifically talking about gift vouchers where the value cannot be redeemed for anything of that value that the recipient could use.

A £25 gift voucher to a shop like Oliver Bonas could most likely cover the full or near the cost of something - even if it's just a pair of socks or some earrings. Plus there's a consistent turnover of stock with new things to chose from. A £25 gift voucher to the Louis Vuitton store on the other hand would require a significant investment from the recipient in order to use it.

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Miloandfreddy · 19/08/2024 10:43

Yes this would annoy me too. Surely the gift giver would be aware that you would have to supplement this with your own money?

dbeuowlxb173939 · 19/08/2024 10:55

Yes this is so annoying. I remember being gifted a spa experience one which was lovely but when I went to book the small print said it was only valid Monday-Friday, I ended up taking a day off work and having to have my mum pick up DD from nursery so I could use it!

taxguru · 19/08/2024 10:58

Yes, YANBU. Very thoughtless of the givers to not actually check the pricing of the experiences and what the face value of the voucher would actually cover. It's like giving you half a gift. Very lazy really!

Fromage · 19/08/2024 11:02

YANBU

Have your friends asked what you're going to book?

Supermacs · 19/08/2024 11:04

YANBU How long is the expiry? Could you ask for another voucher next year for the same place so you can book one of the £100 things?

DonttouchthatLarry · 19/08/2024 11:04

It's annoying. We were given a voucher for a pet portrait session - a single 5x7 photo was included so of course we ended up spending more on 3 larger ones and mounting and framing! If I was ever given another I'd pass it on to someone else for a raffle prize or something 😄

MonsteraMama · 19/08/2024 11:06

Some of them let you refund the vouchers if they've not been spent, usually within a timeframe though (30 days for Virgin experiences). When did they buy it? A bit of honesty might be needed here, and maybe the purchaser can get the money back!

annonymousse · 19/08/2024 11:13

We've been victims of this too. And as it's a gift you can't really complain without sounding ungrateful. We ended up adding money and redeeming the voucher for something we weren't really bothered about doing.

Daisyoopsies · 19/08/2024 12:55

£50 cash would have been so much more useful and would have cost the gifter the same amount.

That's just a lose-lose situation. You didn't get a present and the gifter spent £50 for nothing!

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