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To wonder how so many people are comfortable breaking the speed limit?

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AngeloMysterioso · 16/08/2024 10:50

Is it just me? I’m pretty vigilant about sticking to the speed limit but more and more I’ve noticed recently that I’ll be doing 70 or just below on a dual carriageway or the motorway and someone will go flying past. God forbid I be driving at the limit on the outside lane, even if I’m going faster than everyone in the middle lane it’s only a matter of time before some knob is either flashing their headlights at me or driving up my arse (or both) while I wait for a big enough gap to move across so they can shoot off before doing the same to the next car in front.

It tends to be most often 4x4 drivers or Mercedes/BMW/Jaguar etc types. Maybe they just don’t think they should have to see the back of a 16 year old Fiesta!

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Pootle23 · 16/08/2024 14:32

redalex261 · 16/08/2024 14:07

This thread is amazing. All these posters who throw a shit fit if the in-laws offer their little darling a chocolate biscuit seem to have no issue with regularly breaking the law. 🤣 Absolutely precious.

Speed limits are not a “guide” or “common law” - they are statutory.

Yes, they could do with being overhauled as regards motorway driving especially with improved safety features in modern vehicles. Sadly though the drivers haven’t improved in line with the vehicle safety, especially if they are distracted by tech.

When driving bigger fancier cars people often don’t realise how fast they are actually travelling, this applies in 20, 30 & 40 zones where pedestrians are (they can be distracted by tech too!).

Wonder what these posters would say if it was their kid flattened by an SUV going just a little above the “common law” speed “guide”?

They obviously wouldn’t mind, because it’s just a bit over, and I’ve learnt today from idiots are us on this thread that speed limits are just guidelines!

I must have missed that amendment to the Highway Code!

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 14:33

Is that what you tell your kids as you wave them off in their first car?

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:34

@Tryingtokeepgoing It is very much a criminal offence otherwise the police would not get involved.

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 14:37

See my earlier comment about how many people actually slow down in poor visibility.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/08/2024 14:39

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Well that's either made up or a stupid salesperson, as anyone in the UK who has a car with that level of automation (and I've had a 2 Mercs, a Tesla and a BMW with that tech) knows, if you don't interact with the car periodically then first it bongs, and if that doesn't work it will then slowly bring the car to a halt, haxard warning ligjts on.

Now, that's not ideal in the outside lane of the M25, but its an awful lot safer than having a heart attack in a car without that tech, where the outcome will either be the accelerator flat to the foor, and / or the steering when yanked to the left or right, and not stopping until it ploughs into another road user and causes a huge accident!!

taxguru · 16/08/2024 14:40

I agree. I'd certainly be in favour of re-tests every 5 years for everyone and maybe every year for OAPs.

But it still wouldn't solve the problem of unlicenced drivers or those who get "friends and family" to sit their tests as look-a-likes unfortunately. Perhaps we'd need to move to fingerprints or retina ID checks instead of photos!

It also wouldn't solve the problems of people who can "fake" driving properly in a test, but then drive like morons on the roads again afterwards.

But yes, it would be a step in the right direction. Passing a test once maybe decades ago certainly doesn't make a driver safe today!

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/08/2024 14:40

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:34

@Tryingtokeepgoing It is very much a criminal offence otherwise the police would not get involved.

Much as you might like that to be the case, if you accept and pay the FPN it is not and you wll not get a criminal record

https://www.adrianflux.co.uk/blog/2023/01/motoring-conviction-criminal-record/#:~:text=If%20you%20are%20caught%20speeding%20and%20pay%20the%20Fixed%20Penalty,recorded%20as%20a%20criminal%20conviction.

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:41

@Tryingtokeepgoing The initial act of speeding is a criminal offence.

"Speeding is a criminal offence in the UK and can have serious consequences; drivers should always be aware of the speed limit on the roads they are travelling on. The police has the power to issue penalty points, fines, driving bans and even imprisonment for those who exceed the speed limit and cause dangerous situations or accidents."

Taken from a solicitors website.

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 14:41

And the conclusion is that the many, many 'speed doesn't matter, driving to the conditions does' people don't drive to the conditions either.

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:44

@Tryingtokeepgoing You have misunderstood what that blog is saying. It says if you don't pay the FPN then it won't obtain a criminal record but the actual act of speeding is a criminal offence, which is why the FPN is given in the first place.

It's essentially an incentive to get people to pay as opposed to being prosecuted.

GasPanic · 16/08/2024 14:44

taxguru · 16/08/2024 13:13

@GasPanic

I have something called lane assist that wrestles the steering wheel from you and tries to pull you back into the centre of the lane when you go outside it.

In our cars, it doesn't "wrestle" with you if you indicate, so it basically does exactly what it's supposed to do, i.e. warn you of unexpected deviation from lane to lane. If you indicate (as you should do), it doesn't activate. At least not in either of our cars. Try it and see!

This is true on mine also.

But few people have the presence of mind to indicate when they are in an emergency situation. And you might argue that is taking up valuable processing time which could be put to better use.

Last time I took emergency avoidance from someone in front doing something silly, I wasn't doing "mirror signal maneovre". I was getting the hell out of the way.

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:46

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:44

@Tryingtokeepgoing You have misunderstood what that blog is saying. It says if you don't pay the FPN then it won't obtain a criminal record but the actual act of speeding is a criminal offence, which is why the FPN is given in the first place.

It's essentially an incentive to get people to pay as opposed to being prosecuted.

Sorry that meant to say that if you don't pay it then you will get a criminal record. Autocorrect.

AngeloMysterioso · 16/08/2024 14:51

“'He did drive fast, but not erratically and never took risks.'”

“He” sounds like a lot of people on this thread. He hit a 9-month pregnant woman driving to an antenatal scan whilst he was speeding, killing both of them.

The quote is what his wife said at the inquest into their deaths.

Sounds like he thought the speed limit was more of a guideline than a law too.

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Getonwitit · 16/08/2024 14:52

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Above the law are you? Arrogant beyond belief.

CalishataFolkart · 16/08/2024 14:52

I would love to see some posters in front of a judge.

“No no your Honour, you shouldn’t ban me from driving, I believe the law is just a guide…”

MereDintofPandiculation · 16/08/2024 14:53

Demonhunter · 16/08/2024 12:31

To be honest, our speed limits are crazy when you think about places like Germany and the autobahn and how advanced modern cars are now, yet we are still using the same limits that were introduced decades ago, and they're lowering them in places all the time now.

I'm prepared to accept "crazy" speed limits in exchange for a 15% reduction in deaths per million population.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/08/2024 14:55

InkyPinkyPonky24 · 16/08/2024 14:44

@Tryingtokeepgoing You have misunderstood what that blog is saying. It says if you don't pay the FPN then it won't obtain a criminal record but the actual act of speeding is a criminal offence, which is why the FPN is given in the first place.

It's essentially an incentive to get people to pay as opposed to being prosecuted.

But the outcome is the same isn't it. So that's semantics. If you stay under 96mph on the motorway and, if caught, pay the fine / FPN then you will not get a criminal record. Sure, you have tecnhically commited a crime. But if you don't have a criminal record as a result, and no further action is taken, have you really commited a crime...? 😂

Silvers11 · 16/08/2024 14:56

And to make that clear, by no more to overtake I don’t mean until there are no more cars as far as the eye can see, I mean until I’m able to stay in the left lane for a sensible amount of time before I’ll need to pull out to overtake again. But if there are say 10 cars a short distance apart going slower than I am I’ll stay in the overtaking lane until I’ve passed them all, rather than ducking in and out behind each of them individually.

That depends on what is going on around you. If you have someone going faster than you in the Overtaking lane and coming up behind you, you SHOULD be moving over, if there is room to do so, to let them past and then pulling out again when you need. You don't just sit out because there is a further line of slower moving cars and you will need to pull out again.

People who drive like you can actually contribute to the cause of accidents. Yes, 70mph is the legal limit, but frustration by other drivers can cause accidents and it is best practice to consider other road users, not just be smug that you aren't going over 70mph and you'll stay where you are because it suits you. That is actually as bad driving as those who are speeding and driving up the rear of vehicles in front.

taxguru · 16/08/2024 14:57

MereDintofPandiculation · 16/08/2024 14:53

I'm prepared to accept "crazy" speed limits in exchange for a 15% reduction in deaths per million population.

Speed isn't the cause of most accidents. The statistics are for "speed being a factor", not the root cause. That's a very important distinction. Most deaths are due to carelessness, incompetence, medical episodes, drunk/drugged driving, etc. The statistics are often taken out of context. Many of the deaths flagged with speed being a factor, would still have been deaths had the drivers concerned been driving at or below the speed limits!

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 14:58

Oh dear god, frustration doesn't cause accidents. It can cause independent adults to make dangerous maneuvers. The decision is entirely on them.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/08/2024 14:59

CalishataFolkart · 16/08/2024 14:52

I would love to see some posters in front of a judge.

“No no your Honour, you shouldn’t ban me from driving, I believe the law is just a guide…”

The whole point is, for speeding, you won't end up in front of a judge if you stick below the police guidelines! Unless of course you are stupid enought to be caught enough times to get 12 points. Then you really are stupid :)

I think those who vehemently belive that speed limits must never be exceeded are the saae people who spied on their neighbours during lockdown to make sure they didn't go out more than once a day ;)

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 15:01

You honestly can't be serious. Twat trying to race up the outside lane at 90 tailgates law abiding overtaker doing 70, and if his anger at being held back by a slowcoach results in him driving dangerously then it's law abiders fault??

Growlybear83 · 16/08/2024 15:01

Some of the comments on this thread are a bit scary. It seems as though a lot of people haven't ever read the Highway Code. How did they pass their driving tests when they are so ignorant of the law?

Pootle23 · 16/08/2024 15:03

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/08/2024 14:59

The whole point is, for speeding, you won't end up in front of a judge if you stick below the police guidelines! Unless of course you are stupid enought to be caught enough times to get 12 points. Then you really are stupid :)

I think those who vehemently belive that speed limits must never be exceeded are the saae people who spied on their neighbours during lockdown to make sure they didn't go out more than once a day ;)

No I believe in the law and driving within the speed limit, but nope I never had time to spy on my neighbours during covid, was too busy working full time!

Just because someone doesn’t break the law themselves, doesn’t mean they spy on people, what a strange analogy.

MorrisZapp · 16/08/2024 15:04

Country roads are even worse. Overtaking on hills and blind bends because of 'frustration'. Imagine thinking a head on collision was a reasonable risk to take rather than doing 50 for a bit.