To be petrified of DS starting school?

[BranstonPickleAndNikNaks]

DS starts school in September. Winter baby, so amongst the older children in his year. I think he's ready for it, academically - he's bright and curious, can read simple words, and loves to learn.

But I feel like I'm throwing him to the wolves. It seems like every other day there's a news article / MN thread / anecdote from a friend about how terrible schools are at the moment.

He's my PFB and I'm prepared (hoping?) to be told I'm overreacting and to get over myself, but it's terrifying to read about children assaulting their teachers and each other, primary-aged kids viewing porn, classes being "taught" all year by an assortment of cover teachers who can't really be arsed and have no relationship with the kids, teachers on the front line on their knees, completely unsupported and unable to manage their classed...

We're in a medium-sized town and he'll be in a smallish two-form entry primary. But I feel like I'm sending my happy, innocent, curious little boy into this chaotic, violent free-for-all that just churns out depressed, traumatised automatons who hate learning.
Please tell me it's not as shit as it seems 🙏 Or if it is, please help me prepare him without letting on how scared I am 😭

YABU. Get off the internet and enjoy summer with your kid. And you need to change your attitude so it doesn't affect DS.

It’s totally normal to worry, especially with your first DC. There will be many emotional parents on the first day.

Both my kids, even DS who is neurodivergent and really, really struggles at school, love their school. It’s a large 3 form entry city centre school but the teachers are all fantastic.

Depending which area of London. I am married with a teacher and all our friends are teachers

Primary is fine it's a lovely time! Secondary is the horrible bit.