I've noticed that many people are both talking like, and communicating as though, they are making a podcast or YouTube/TikTok video.
It's quite disturbing. One sided. Every statement sounds like a question. Yet they just...monologue in a performative style.
Much worse with teens but it's affecting people my age (40) too. I've noticed I'm drawn to and really enjoying conversations with people in their 50s and older these days because the flow is naturally two way conversation, reciprocal questions and answers, eye contact.
As opposed to "I'm going to talk at you and perform being a person but not look at you much and wave my hands around a lot while using an odd speech pattern and emphasising some words like reeeeeaaaaalllly AWESOME and ohmygosh it was sooooooo LUSH in a weird Anglo American accent."
And it's very weird for my personally, as someone with AuDHD, to be complaining about the odd speech patterns, lack of eye contact and hand waving of mostly neurotypical people. Did TikTok/YouTube make social communication struggles a stylistic, popular thing?
Accents, speech patterns, communication is one of my special interests so maybe I'm just hyperfocussed on it but something about it makes me feel deeply uncomfortable. It just seems so inauthentic and, yes, robotic.
It's gone from, "I had to nip to Tesco this morning and got caught in the rain...did you manage to miss it?"
to "So, this morning...I was, like? WALKING? To TESCOS and Oh. My. God. I had an absolute MARE because what happened? It started to RAIN!!! Like literally massive like DROPS of rain like all over my face? I can't even. I was like ohmygosh does someone up there hate me or something? Anyways, once I'd recovered from that I was like okayyyy I like literally have groceries to buy so not today Satan I will get a brolly from one of those guys? That sell them? Like on the street? Like has anyone actually noticed that they just like...appear? Like out of nowhere? When it rains? Like what is that about? Where do they come from? And where do they go when it's NOT raining? So anyways, I got to Tescos
and..."
Not a fan. Hope it's a passing phase. I'm predominantly blaming Tik Tok and other "Shorts".