hes coming out the navy in a few months time and has been offered a job in fareham near southampton. The money is ok and its ideal job for him to ease into as it involves training parts of the navy although its a civillian job. Its about 3 hours away from where we live in devon so he could not commute there and back. Husband wants us all to move up there as we cannot afford to keep two places.But my family and friends are here. Ive just had a baby and i need my support network here. Its not like il be able to go out alot to make new friends. Id rather me and dh split up to be honest. I used to being away from him but not family and frineds. Having a baby also makes me relise how much my family will miss out on him and likewise.