So... A few months back my husband found a empty condom wrapper in our garden. We live in a fairly rural area, with no neighbours on a country road. He picks up the wrapper (gross!) and brings it to me and says 'wheres this come from', I look confused and laugh and tell him I've absolutely no idea and tell him to put it in the outside bin. I didn't think much of it. But then he comes back in and says 'well I know it's not mine' ... At this point I realise that when he was asking where it has come from, he was actually asking if it was mine!
I'm now feeling defensive and pissed off to think he could accuse me of something. I tell him to stop being stupid and that it could come from anywhere or anyone walking by or driving by the house.
He's refusing to accept that and says it must have come from our house.
This escalated and we had a fall out over it, as it would never have crossed my mind to assume the wrapper had anything to do with him, so why is the accusations being thrown at me...
... A few weeks pass, this is still coming up in conversations, hes telling me he's not accusing me but would like to know where it came from. I genuinely have no answer and feeling pretty pissed off now that I have to explain something I have no idea about.
He thinks that me being pissed off and seeming defensive is an 'odd reaction' but I'm sick to death of being questioned about something I have no idea about it... And the message behind him asking me about it.
He tells me i'm being over the top, and all he simply wants to is to know where it came from.
Am I being over the top to be hurt by this. I feel accused but he says he's not accusing... But what else is he doing by asking me and bringing this up all the time.