Trigger warning: Online child sexual abuse

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Not a direct TAAT but inspired by one...about children and screen time.

AIBU to be worried about the risks of devices and online platforms for children? (I don't believe I am but it frightens me how often I see young children, as in primary age, left unsupervised with screens). Fair enough to parents who put blocks on, but many children are incredibly adept at using technology and I've known many children who are able to bypass controls.

I've worked in child protection, mainstream and special education, mental health, sexual assault centres and early years. I've seen a big range of concerns so not talking out of turn here. And I've seen many parents believe that their blocks are safeguarding their kids and then kids tell me otherwise and will speak about all of the horrific stuff they see.

Link below - AIBU for this to be on my mind so often and to worry when I see little ones on screens unsupervised?

Perhaps I'm biased as I am saturated in this sort of topic....still a concern though.

www.iwf.org.uk/news-media/news/under-sixes-manipulated-into-disturbing-sexual-abuse-while-playing-alone-online-as-iwf-says-regulation-can-t-wait/

No, I don’t think you’re BU. I also wish there could be some kind of legal consequences for caretakers who allow young children unrestricted access to internet-linked devices. If a child ends up harmed online, there should be penalties for whoever put them in the position where the harm was possible. I don’t honestly think it would be practical to put that in place - it could be hard to prove who actually had care of the child at the time, for example. But it’s basically neglect. If you wouldn’t allow your child to go out alone in a big city at night, you shouldn’t allow them unmonitored access to the internet.

Thank you @CodeAndCuriosity
I know I'm not BU as such, it's just that sometimes it can all seem so frightening for children. Again, I'm saturated in hearing about this topic.

I agree, it would be hard to manage that sort of legal consequence. I'm just sick of vile predators having unfettered access to kids.

Totally agree. And I’m so sorry that you’re in a position to have to hear about these things regularly. It takes a toll. Do you think it might be helpful for you to talk to a counsellor? Maybe just a few focused sessions to give you an outlet for your feelings about this. It sounds as though it’s really distressing you (quite understandably).

Thanks @CodeAndCuriosity , I do see a therapist and supervisor very regularly- we're well looked after in our team. It's a topic that's close to my heart

I’m really glad to hear that. Thanks for everything you do to keep children safe. It’s so very needed. 💐