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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask how much you save each month roughly?

161 replies

SunnyWavess · 11/08/2024 22:53

As the title says - how much does the average household save each month once everything is paid? Some families won’t be able to save anything and that’s their experience.

zero
£50
£100
£200
£500
£750

We’re all different of course but would like some insight of the average house - thanks

OP posts:
GiantRoadPuzzle · 12/08/2024 12:26

Chickoletta · 12/08/2024 12:13

I totally agree with this.

Why?

SunnyWavess · 12/08/2024 12:32

mibbelucieachwell · 12/08/2024 10:22

How about you @SunnyWavess?

Is this post helping with your project?

Project? No project, just curious, the same reason people post anything on here.

If you care to RTFT you’ll see I have replied.

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SunnyWavess · 12/08/2024 12:34

GalileoHumpkins · 12/08/2024 12:19

How does knowing what other people save give you insight? It's utterly meaningless.

Its perspective isn’t it. It’s interesting to hear different opinions and experiences

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rainbowunicorn · 12/08/2024 12:44

I wouldn't count things like saving for annual bills, car ins, car maintenance, house ins, Christmas, birthdays etc as savings. That's just budgeting really. We worked out roughly how much each of these type things cost and added 5% to be safe, have a separate pot for each that gets paid into monthly. The money is there when needed. It did take a bit of time to get to the point that I could do all annual expenses like this.

As for savings we are lucky to be able to put away approx £1400 a month for medium to long term savings. Medium is larger house projects such as new bathroom, windows, carpets, garden etc. Long term is for additional money in retirement. I want to be able to get someone in to do the garden, paint the house go away for a long weekend at the drop of a hat without worrying about where the money is coming from.

We also save into regular savers each month and at the end of the term transfer to an ISA. The money in these is for car purchase in the shorter term and for the other longer term to help with health costs in later years. I would like to have the option of better than NHS for things like hearing aids if needed, private physio or a cataract op etc. Could never afford full private health care so this hopefully would make a difference to some aspects.

We both have full state pension when due and also have okay works / private pensions. The longer term savings mentioned above are just to give that bit extra comfort.

It has taken a long time to get to where we are. 13 years ago we had £15000 of credit card debt. We were only just scraping by and lived hand to mouth most months. Now our mortgage is paid off, partly because we chose to stay in a house that many on here would deem small, one bathroom, one living room, no separate dining room etc. We could have moved and had a house twice the size but we decide to prioritise financial security instead.
The best thing I ever did was go onto the money saving expert forums. People on there give great advice on debt, savings, pensions all without the mumsnet 'is this a stealth boast' crap. There's none of the immature jealousy on the money section that you get here. If any do pop up they are generally politely told to stop.
I read the advice on how to save, how to pay down debt effectively and how to budget and I put it into practice.

Sorry it is so long. I just wanted to show that it is possible to get from having not a penny in savings to being in a okay position.

ApplesonTuesdays · 12/08/2024 12:44

Gosh, I thought I was doing OK but after reading this thread - perhaps not!

We put 300 away each month into long term savings. Once a year dh will dump more money in after his tax returns are done. Perhaps 5-10k.

Holidays, Xmas etc come out of any accumulation in our current account.

loopyluloopy · 12/08/2024 13:28

Husband and 1 Dave around £3k with 4 kids and one on the way.

rainbowunicorn · 12/08/2024 13:49

ApplesonTuesdays · 12/08/2024 12:44

Gosh, I thought I was doing OK but after reading this thread - perhaps not!

We put 300 away each month into long term savings. Once a year dh will dump more money in after his tax returns are done. Perhaps 5-10k.

Holidays, Xmas etc come out of any accumulation in our current account.

Bit you are doing okay, you are saving within your means. When I first started saving after paying off credit card debt it was a standing order into a basic savings account for £50 a month. Then at the end of each month anything that was left over even if it was just £1in the current account got moved to the savings account. I also used to do savings challenges eg. Check the current account daily and move any shrapnel to the savings so if there was for example £575.63 in there I would move the 63p to savings. It might not seem much but it isn't missed and could easily add an extra £20 a month to savings.
Any pay rise we would immediately take a quarter of it and save it. We would set this up on the savings standing order to go out immediately from the first month so it was never missed. When we paid off a loan or a credit card we would start to save half of the amount that we had been paying and the other half was used in general day to day to make life a bit nicer
It took a long time but it is so true what they say, small amounts really do add up.

Bedroomdilemmas113 · 12/08/2024 15:09

hattie43 · 12/08/2024 12:10

Assuming your husband stays fit and well to continue his employment or assuming the job is still there and not restructured, folded , business sold .

I'm sorry I find it madness to save nothing when you don't know what tomorrow brings . You could saddle your kids with guilt knowing you gave them everything and know your living off beans because life took a wrong turn .

The same with the poster upthread spending £45k a year on holidays and Xmas yet an interest only mortgage .

Without being outing. Not a job. Equity stakes in various businesses, director of all.

That isn’t a valid concern for us.

Could sell all shareholdings, have a good chunk of home equity too and good pensions.

In terms of health also very well insured for all eventualities.

Could pay mortgage on single salary, school fees too.

We aren’t concerned!

thicklysettled · 12/08/2024 16:46

CrikeyDozes · 12/08/2024 01:45

Agree with previous posters that it’s hard to define “savings”.

Each month after we have paid the bills and kept money in our account for that month’s food and essentials we put £3k in a savings account for holidays and £750 in an account for Christmas and birthdays.

Sounds loads but at the end of the year we have no savings as we spend both accounts on holidays and Christmas and birthdays. We only pay the interest on our mortgage so we aren’t increasing our actual wealth at all. We don’t own a car (London based).

Why are you saving nearly $4k a month but only paying the interest on your mortgage? Not judging, just don't understand.

readingismycardio · 12/08/2024 17:14

Around £1k (together with DH)
No mortgage
One almost 6 month old baby

readingismycardio · 12/08/2024 17:15

And around £200 for the baby in a pot. The £1000 is for holidays, emergencies, etc

justasking111 · 12/08/2024 18:00

thicklysettled · 12/08/2024 16:46

Why are you saving nearly $4k a month but only paying the interest on your mortgage? Not judging, just don't understand.

£36k a year on holidays and 9k a year on Christmas is a bit mind boggling.

Spectre8 · 12/08/2024 19:05

rainbowunicorn · 12/08/2024 11:41

Why is it upsetting that a family who will be paying a fair amount in tax and NI should get back a little bit of what they pay in. They probably pay in more in a year than some do in a lifetime. Why shouldn't their children benefit from the funded nursery place the same as everyone else's.

Well you could then argue why don't single childfree/childless people who fund everyone else's choices don't get some benefit back like 50% off council tax 🙄 such is life though

Kitkat1523 · 12/08/2024 19:11

Me 1500
DP 400
im 59

timetodecide2345 · 12/08/2024 20:32

About £350 into savings but another £450 into pension investments. At the end of the month I move any money into savings if can afford to.

19lottie82 · 12/08/2024 20:36

I have existing savings, but don’t earn a lot at the moment. However I put away 10% every time I get paid.

Cel77 · 12/08/2024 20:37

£100/month for my "rainy days ".
£60/month in my private pension
£20/month in my children's ISAs

I'm broke all the time but stick to those 3 above.

TorroFerney · 12/08/2024 20:42

Belindabelle · 11/08/2024 23:00

£3k but we are not an average household. Me 55 DH 58 no mortgage, children grown and flown.

Similar here. One child who is 14 but no mortgage or loans , cars paid for.

Gawjus · 12/08/2024 21:17

£1,000 a month. Single no kids, and now have £270k saved.

GoingUpUpUp · 12/08/2024 21:17

£1k into savings
£500 into company share save scheme
£200 overpaying mortgage
£100 kids savings

Then as others say I save into holiday, birthday, Christmas and DH time off (self employed) pots though this is more budgeting than saving as it gets spent.

We’re late 30s, with low childcare costs (I.e no nursery!) but quite a big mortgage

LoinChop · 12/08/2024 21:30

£4k A month. 2 x high earners, large mortgage, 3 dcs, all in school.

Lunab18 · 12/08/2024 21:36

£200 a month for Christmas, £300 for holidays and £100 for kids savings.

Frazzled2108 · 12/08/2024 21:46

Zero

jelly79 · 12/08/2024 21:52

£120 a month but use it for holiday spends

Will up to £200 soon

Have 1 primary aged child and I am a single parent

curlycurlymoo · 12/08/2024 21:53

£400. But sometimes dip in. Two kids. Will be upping this next month to about £700