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Question4uuu · 11/08/2024 11:52

I left someone recently because they are chaotic and were up to several things I did not like. They are reckless with their money and they don't pay their bills. To be honest they have hit rock bottom now. They did ask me for £10 this morning and I know their cupboards are Bare so I sent it. It bounced back and then the other account did the same. He said eventually he was on phone to the bank as he's been shut down due to fraud.

I pay all my bills. Live separately and work with a small top of of uc. I'm an honest person but now I'm anxious about being associated to him due to a transaction history of £20 here and there.

He's also just asked to meet me and my son in town if I draw it out. I said no because I do not want that infront of my son
He asked me why the hell not

Will I get in any trouble for his behaviours if there's dodgy behaviour. I'm not involved at all

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GreenIvyy · 11/08/2024 12:07

Do not send anymore money. If there are any foodbanks/soup kitchens in your area, send them info on that. No more

Catza · 11/08/2024 13:01

Why would you get in trouble?
If he continues harassing you, I’d report to the police. He has no business asking you for money and demanding to explain “why not”. You are not his wife or his relative. That’s enough of a reason.

Lurkingandlearning · 11/08/2024 13:34

Just tell him you don’t have it to spare now. If he kicks off tell him that hassling you for money won’t look good alongside the fraud investigation

Question4uuu · 11/08/2024 14:17

I'm trying to fully disconnect I'm about 90% now. It's been a tricky one but I have come along way and proud of myself in recent weeks. He is one of those people who makes you feel he will die without your help as he's quick to "give up" and has nobody left now anyway. So he's pulled on my heart strings but I'm regaining my control.

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