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Friend giving safety tips for London?

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breezeofqinter · 02/08/2024 16:24

Maybe I sound horrible but me and a friend are visiting our mutual friend in London tomorrow, she’s lived there for maybe a year.

Shes just text us to give us safety tips. I’ve lost count of the amount of times I’ve been to London, I even work from the London office occasionally.

I know she means well but aibu to find it a bit patronising?

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JHound · 04/08/2024 04:17

If I visited a city regularly I would find it patronising but generally harmless.

I would just send back a thumbs up emoji and leave it at that.

JHound · 04/08/2024 04:19

WingSluts · 03/08/2024 13:16

No, it’s not an autocorrect but I don’t dare explain in case I’m thought patronising.

What’s a clipboard theft?

OnInstagramAsFitFabForties · 04/08/2024 04:26

You sound miserable OP.

Julianne65 · 04/08/2024 04:53

It depends what kind of safety tips. Can you give examples?

Julianne65 · 04/08/2024 04:55

Chika89 · 02/08/2024 20:45

I think that’s lovely. London is a dive. She clearly cares about you

some parts are some aren’t. It’s a big place.

Ceit · 04/08/2024 08:51

DreadPirateRobots · 02/08/2024 16:32

YANBU but half of MN thinks that London is a postapocalyptic wasteland roamed constantly by terrorists, pickpockets, and people who want to sell day trippers into slavery.

Nobody who isn't Country Mouse needs "safety tips" for London.

This

WingSluts · 04/08/2024 10:13

The comment about being thought patronising was a reference to all the criticism being levelled at the person offering advice in the OP’s scenario.

Clipboard thefts are when someone, often a child, will approach the potential victim sitting at a table in a cafe or bar and ask them to sign a spurious petition or make a donation to some cause (usually made up). It’s partly a distraction technique, partly to show where the victim’s purse or phone is for a later pickpocketing and in some cases the clipboard is out down on top of a phone or purse then both are lifted together and the thief walks off to a confederate who holds the stolen items.

It is rife, especially in summer when there is more alfresco dining and children are more available to help. Our poor waitress at lunch yesterday spent more time chasing off clipboard children asking for donations for their team’s new football strips than she did serving customers. The kids must have been no more than seven, if that. It was disgusting.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 04/08/2024 11:30

DreamTheMoors · 02/08/2024 17:15

I’d rather laugh at you, @Peonies12since you’re so anxious to laugh at somebody else.

Tell us all about yourself. Don’t leave anything out.

Thought @Peonies meant laugh at the advice, not the person, as many have said they're curious too on the advice.

pasta · 04/08/2024 11:49

I don't feel at all worried for my personal safety but I am super vigilant about my phone now in a way I wasn't a couple of years ago.

I haven't got a particularly expensive phone, but the thought that the hassle of losing it would entail is too much

NoDought · 04/08/2024 20:31

Need context to comment. If she is saying ‘make sure you mind the gap’ on the tube then I would find that patronising but if she is making you aware of some local security threats and areas to avoid that previously would have been safe then I would take that as just a considerate friend and also would find it odd if she didn’t alert you to it.

breezeofqinter · 04/08/2024 20:47

OnInstagramAsFitFabForties · 04/08/2024 04:26

You sound miserable OP.

Yeah so do you love

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