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To think this woman doesn’t like me?

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breezeofqinter · 02/08/2024 12:33

She’s a colleague, works in a different location so I don’t have to interact with her too much. I’m still semi new to the business but she’s repeatedly not invited me to meetings, where my manager has had to step in and say to invite me (manager was invited and that how she knew I didn’t tell her).

She’s called me by the wrong name twice in meetings in front of numerous people. Then today we had a face to face meeting with a larger group and as we were leaving she said “did you ask everything you wanted” “well I was going to ask about cost but David already asked that” she turns to David (who’s quite senior) “I don’t think you asked any questions about cost did you?”

Thankfully David backed me up that he very much did. I don’t care about someone not liking me, there will be people in life who dislike me for no reason or for actual reasons. But it’s just getting me down that it’s almost belittling me now in front of people or am I being too sensitive?

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FluffyLemonClouds · 02/08/2024 12:38

Nip this in the bud now , she's boundary testing . Take her to one side and ask her if there has been a misunderstanding or if you have offended her in any way and you are happy to talk to management to resolve it . I usually go find this does the trick as she will have to say what the problem is or she will back off .

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