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AIBU to be bothered by this? I can't quite explain why it would bother me but it definitely does!

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JMSA · 01/08/2024 23:06

At a holiday park with my teenage daughters. The lodge is right by the beach and we were having a pre-dinner walk along it. We came across a dead and rotting seal on the sand ... unfortunately I didn't notice it in time to stop the dog from rolling on it, but that's another story!
Anyway, on the way back, we saw some children throwing stones at it. I was really saddened by this but couldn't explain why. It's dead, it's not like it can feel anything.
And then I remember feeling this way as a kid myself, when I saw kids throwing stones at (well, kind of 'into') dead jellyfish on the beach.
I can't articulate why it bothers me so much, I just know it does.
I should add that, as a child especially, I much preferred animals to humans Grin

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NiceCutRoundDomeDormice · 02/08/2024 10:37

junebirthdaygirl · 02/08/2024 09:15

I mean it's the same attitude that would cause someone to do it.

I really don’t think it is. Throwing stones at a living creature is cruel; something the person doing it knows will cause pain. Throwing stones at a dead creature isn’t very nice, but it’s not done out of cruelty. As unpleasant as it might be, it’s not going to hurt the seal.

JohnTheRevelator · 02/08/2024 10:37

KreedKafer · 01/08/2024 23:29

Babies and small children will happily scrunch their hands into their own shit and smear it everywhere for entertainment. And my brother’s best friend once brought home a dead crab from a school trip in his suitcase, which by the time he got home had liquefied to a slimy foul-smelling rot inside its shell and leaked over everything. Does it make you sad that people choose to live with children as well?

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