I am single. Basically, I'm not good at attracting men, and that's ok, it doesn't make me any less of a person.
People say I am very physically attractive, a lovely person, intelligent, funny etc. I do believe I have stuff going for me, but men just often don't feel the spark or want a long-term relationship.
I've spent years feeling depressed and beating myself up about that. Truthfully I just find dating and relationships very hard, there is a lot of compromise involved and I find that men often get bored after a few years.
There is too much expectation to be who they want you to be.
I would like to have a child, but I'm aware that will be a lot harder on my own.
Being single has many advantages and I do think I prefer it, it's just the social pressure and seeing pretty much everyone else around me coupled up.