Does he fancy me or not? Can't tell.

[Shirtonmyback]

I guess yanbu- He seems to
Yanbu- No I don't think he does.

We're only friends ATM, but.

He's happy to talk to me every single day, whether in person or by msg.
We had a coffee together and we were there from 2pm until 6:30. The conversation flowed, this is a big thing for me as I'm very introverted and shy, usually after an hour or two I want to leave, even if I like the person, I find it draining.

He kinda teases me sometimes.
I didn't see him for one day, and the next time he saw me he said 'long time no see'.

Or he said stuff like 'In order to carry on talking to you, I need to know if you like Xyz film' (joking ofc).

I know men and women can just get on and be friends without wanting more, but I do like him.
Does it sound like we have chemistry?

We have very similar personalities too which is great and tons in common.

Well, according to @TheWoodlanders , all men knew. It just took one of them to tell you.

Then again,@TheWoodlanders also points out that men are shallow.

So the kudos of being identified as a babe is a bit diminished by the credibility of the people doing the identifying.

Still. Nice to know anyway.

In my experience a big clue is in how tactile he is - not in a creepy way.

Male friends who have been interested in more have always made an effort to include reasons to be physically close, like gently touching my arm to get my attention or even playful things like messing up my hair. Just non-threatening ways to be closer.

That's not a guarantee of course, some people are just naturally tactile, but my male friends who are only friends never do these sorts of things...and these are men I could happily spend hours in the company of without feeling all 'peopled out' like I do with some others so there is a genuine connection, but it's purely platonic.

i think he likes you too

I would say he likes you. Perhaps ask him if he'd like to go out for a meal one evening? You literally have nothing to lose. If he says no, then say 'well perhaps we can catch each other for coffee again' and leave it at that. I suspect, if you suggest a meal out, he will jump at the chance!