We moved into our area a few years ago, and it was (and still is) a lot more affordable than many other areas of Greater London, but the prices have shot up in the last 10 years here - and most are around 75-100% more than they were then.
My friends and their partners who live here all earn less than my Husband and I, and only one of my friends has been to University, yet they all have lots more disposable income than us as they bought their houses here between 9-12 years ago. They all have at least 4 bedrooms, and all extended their houses before the prices more than doubled too, and so have massive and beautiful kitchen and dining spaces.
Our house has less bedrooms than this, and we have been quoted £60,000 for a small extension which we just can’t afford. We’ve also been told that if we saved for it, we wouldn’t get that money back if we were to sell. We also can’t afford to buy the next size house up, as they are so much more expensive. We feel trapped.
One of my friends here lives in a house which is nearly twice the size of ours, and yet her mortgage is £900 per month, whereas ours is nearly £2500 per month. Her monthly sum increased by £200 per month when she had her home extended - but she was able to make her home around 70% larger for this!
Many other people we know here are very similar to my friends - no Degrees, and many get to work from too (which we’d love to, but our careers don’t allow for it) and do the school runs whereas we can’t. They tend to do office type roles from home, or are trades people, or are in semi physical jobs.
Maybe it’s similar where you live OP?