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To not understand how people afford home improvements

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Britishsummertime22 · 30/07/2024 22:35

I have no money left at the end of the month. How do people spend thousands on getting kitchens and bathrooms done etc??

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JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 31/07/2024 07:35

I added it to the mortgage, so when it's sorted over 23 years it only adds a small amount to the mortgage payment. Then overpay like mad to get it paid off quicker (which is what I do)

Pickled21 · 31/07/2024 07:39

They earn more or have less outgoings than you. The last two years we have been abroad, before that we hadn't been abroad in 8 years. Next year we likely won't go abroad and will spend the money saved on doing our bathroom up. We don't have expensive hobbies and I don't have regular expenses like getting my roots done or nails. It all adds up.

Heatherbell1978 · 31/07/2024 07:48

We've done a few things to the house. About 6 years ago the company DH worked for was bought over. He had shares. And he pocketed £90k. So we spent £50k on an extension and put some in the mortgage. A couple of years later we decided to get a new kitchen and do work to the garden so when we remortgaged we took some money back out again.
Most garage conversions and extensions are likely done from releasing equity from the house - makes sense if you're adding value to the house.
But for smaller home improvements we save. Things like new furniture buy on 0% interest credit and repay over time.

showeringthisaft · 31/07/2024 07:54

It's quite straightforward - different people have different incomes and outgoings 🤷🏼‍♀️

jeaux90 · 31/07/2024 07:55

Magpie50 · 31/07/2024 00:15

I know what you mean, OP. I've had no running hot water for years coz I can't afford a new boiler. Not to mention the bathroom is falling apart and I need roofing work done.
It can be terrifying wondering if your house might fall down while you struggle make ends meet.
I've managed to get alot of stuff done by saving but so much more to do.

My best friend is in a similar situation. Her floor is like a trampoline and she actually jumps into her kitchen to avoid the worst areas....she's just terrified of what it might cost.

You know BG does interest free credit replacement boilers.

7Blunders · 31/07/2024 07:55

@Rollercoaster1920

Try diy kitchen if you are looking.

They are fabulous and so much cheaper.

7Blunders · 31/07/2024 07:56

Op I don't get it either although remortgaging when rates where so incredibly low makes sense.

Sillybanana · 31/07/2024 07:56

I had to wait years, and then take out a big loan to get everything done. It’s low interest and will be paid off monthly over 5 Years.

SprinkleOfSunak · 31/07/2024 08:24

We moved into our area a few years ago, and it was (and still is) a lot more affordable than many other areas of Greater London, but the prices have shot up in the last 10 years here - and most are around 75-100% more than they were then.

My friends and their partners who live here all earn less than my Husband and I, and only one of my friends has been to University, yet they all have lots more disposable income than us as they bought their houses here between 9-12 years ago. They all have at least 4 bedrooms, and all extended their houses before the prices more than doubled too, and so have massive and beautiful kitchen and dining spaces.

Our house has less bedrooms than this, and we have been quoted £60,000 for a small extension which we just can’t afford. We’ve also been told that if we saved for it, we wouldn’t get that money back if we were to sell. We also can’t afford to buy the next size house up, as they are so much more expensive. We feel trapped.

One of my friends here lives in a house which is nearly twice the size of ours, and yet her mortgage is £900 per month, whereas ours is nearly £2500 per month. Her monthly sum increased by £200 per month when she had her home extended - but she was able to make her home around 70% larger for this!

Many other people we know here are very similar to my friends - no Degrees, and many get to work from too (which we’d love to, but our careers don’t allow for it) and do the school runs whereas we can’t. They tend to do office type roles from home, or are trades people, or are in semi physical jobs.

Maybe it’s similar where you live OP?

mondaytosunday · 31/07/2024 09:09

Save up. Borrow. Or for me the last time, I factored it in to my house move. So got a house slightly cheaper, and made sure the money spent on renovations would not out price the street. Yes I had to go thought the pain of living on site, but got what I wanted.

Pussycat22 · 31/07/2024 09:12

Good old interest free credit!!!!

Windywuss · 31/07/2024 09:14

I often wonder this and then realise it's because I'm a lone parent on one salary.

Many of these answers are 'we'. If I had a partner who had same salary as me, we'd be rolling in it compared to how I am now.

Ilovegoldies · 31/07/2024 09:18

Will people stop with 'I'd rather my great aunt Ethel still be here than have a inheritance' do you think people that don't have inheritances don't love their deceased relatives? Just say inheritance 😂

Imgoingtoaskthequestion · 31/07/2024 09:44

We do the work ourselves because my family have a business in home improvements. Therefore it is only the cost of materials we are paying for. If you choose well, and from trade suppliers, you can make a nice looking kitchen/bathroom on a budget. You’ve got to be quite creative and understand how things work though. Someone inexperienced might not be able to pull it off in quite the same way.

Wishimaywishimight · 31/07/2024 09:52

We got our bathroom done a couple of years ago - cost around €9,000. Took a few years to save, I would rather not borrow for something like that.

henlake7 · 31/07/2024 10:18

Pussycat22 · 31/07/2024 09:12

Good old interest free credit!!!!

I know so many people who have fancy cars, huge tvs, go on expensive holidays, etc.....they havent paid for any of it!!LOL😆

toomanytonotice · 31/07/2024 10:19

CraftyNavySeal · 30/07/2024 22:38

The same reasons as every other thread about “how do people afford x”.

They earn more money, they take out loans, inheritance or family help

This is the third or fourth thread I’ve seen in the last week on how do people afford x?

holidays, new cars, now home improvements 🤔

LividHouse · 31/07/2024 10:22

Previously, 0% finance and credit cards.

I have paid £££ to plasterers, window fitters etc in the last year, some of it as credit card cash advances.

None of this advisable but I didn't at the time have a choice.

Now, I've discovered Dave Ramsey's baby steps and I'm on my way to sorting out my finances. Google Dave Ramsey because I wish I had years sooner.

KimberleyClark · 31/07/2024 10:22

It always amazes me how homes in soaps are always perfect, you never see a tired dated looking kitchen or a sofa that has seen better days.

Sunnydiary · 31/07/2024 10:27

Are you the same poster who has asked how people afford holidays and then another thread on how they afford new cars?

Is it not obvious?

As it happens, my entire house needs redecorating, and there’s a small hole in my bathroom wall. I cba to pay for home improvements, not when there are SO MANY HOLIDAYS I want to go on 😄

People have different priorities. People have different budgets. What exactly is it that you don’t understand OP?

BMW6 · 31/07/2024 17:22

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