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AIBU to think that I shouldn't have bothered working and paying into National Insurance for the 35 years I have done so?

431 replies

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:38

When all I will get is the bare State Pension. Whereas other people who did not make these contributions and/or did not work will get Pension Credit plus all the other nice little add ons like Council Tax Support, free boilers and now Winter Fuel Allowance? AIBU to think I'm a mug for bothering to work all those years?

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SunnieShine · 30/07/2024 21:38

Seashor · 30/07/2024 20:58

I absolutely agree with you op. Many will come on here saying you’re wrong but you’re absolutely right.

I agree too.

LBFseBrom · 30/07/2024 21:38

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:43

No you can't, sadly. Full state pension takes you £4 a week over the limit where you could claim pension credit.

What about housing benefit?

I don't think anyone can live, ie eat, keep warm and pay bills, on basic state pension and the government surely realises that.

Savings?

I am sorry you are in this predicament.

THisbackwithavengeance · 30/07/2024 21:39

People on MN are always so quick to deny that people on benefits are doing well or better than some people in work.

You're right OP. It's not fair.

Why should people have to pay into a private pension as well as a state pension just to get the same as someone who's never worked?

Zanatdy · 30/07/2024 21:39

NewFriendlyLadybird · 30/07/2024 21:35

So your in-laws have been committing long-term tax evasion, which is a serious crime.

You could always dob them in if you resent it so much.

Well I would if I resented it ‘that much’. They (well FIL has died) is just one of many people who do it. It does frustrate me, but I continue to pay a lot of tax and get on with it.

Miley1967 · 30/07/2024 21:41

PleaseBePacific · 30/07/2024 21:19

I agree, the whole thing is thouroughly depressing. I work my arse off for very little, will never own a house yet pay around £250 pcm into my NHS pension, wtf am I bothering? My quality of life is totally shit and I could really use the money now. I will be screwed if and when I am ever able to retire and am suffering now for what?

If I live that long as am totally burnt out. Would be better off fucking it off and waiting for my pension credit to kick in

NHS is one of the best pensions around. I'm currently watching all my Nurse friends take their pensions at 55 with their massive lump sums and return on less hours for the same money. Appreciate you may not be a Nurse though.

Dweetfidilove · 30/07/2024 21:42

Council Tax Support is paid to pensioners who do not receive pension credits, so if you only have you state pension, yourr entitled too.

PleaseBePacific · 30/07/2024 21:42

Kitkat1523 · 30/07/2024 21:37

well Surely you paying that in to get a an extra sum to add to state pension when you retire so you won’t be on the bones of your arse in retirement years?

you won’t get pension credit….that’s only for older people who get the old state pension.

I will never own my house, so no, the way things stand I would be better off without the private pension as I will have to pay rent...

pingpongding · 30/07/2024 21:43

Yeah, your life is bad because of people below you with even less.

Jeezo, some take.

Hangingupnow · 30/07/2024 21:44

I agree, the whole thing is thouroughly depressing. I work my arse off for very little, will never own a house yet pay around £250 pcm into my NHS pension, wtf am I bothering? My quality of life is totally shit and I could really use the money now. I will be screwed if and when I am ever able to retire and am suffering now for what?

If you are paying in £250 a month the NHS must be contributing a fair bit as their contribution is 23%. That will help in later life.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 30/07/2024 21:44

KTheGrey · 30/07/2024 21:31

Um... it was less than a month ago that the government changed. The last 14 years have been a conservative government who have left more people not working, a higher benefits bill and a larger national debt than ever before.
You can't realistically blame somebody other than the Tory government for this mess.

We are talking about how Labour will raise taxes on savings and inheritance.

Labour want to re-distribute wealth to people who don't work. They started this yesterday by means testing the fuel allowance. They have ingnored the people who are only just above the pension credit income limit. These are the people who are likely to have worked in low paid jobs.

Despair1 · 30/07/2024 21:45

Abouttthat · 30/07/2024 21:03

Purely anecdote but today as I was working from home, in my full time job, in a boiling hot room, I had the pleasure of looking out my window to my next door neighbours who don't work sunning themselves in their garden. They don't work, have a 3 bed council house with one adult son living there, have newer cars than me (hers a 2023 plate, his a 2013 plate) whilst I rattle around in a 2009 car. They enjoy their hot tub and free time whilst I just seem to work and can hardly afford the bills this month.

No doubt in retirement, even though they seemed to have retired at 40, they'll get everything paid for. Meanwhile I'll probably have to sell my house to pay for care. They are people who know exactly how to play the system and have done it for years. No they might not own a house but why own when the council will pay for everything and you have the house until you die anyway, and won't need to "sell" it to pay for care.

It's a joke and there is no incentive to do well in this country at all. Jealous? More like despair.

Spot on, I agree with you completely. Worked FT as a single parent, living off overdraft most of my life. Loan for new boiler, received no benefits at all. Had to work OT to keep boat afloat. Couldn't go to all of son's sports days etc due to working. Yet, those who choose not to work get it all sorted for them and can attend every school event. Shockingly unfair.

SiobhanTheGoblin · 30/07/2024 21:45

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Hangingupnow · 30/07/2024 21:46

Why should people have to pay into a private pension as well as a state pension just to get the same as someone who's never worked?

because you either believe in a safety net or you don’t.

Despair1 · 30/07/2024 21:46

IMustDoMoreExercise · 30/07/2024 21:44

We are talking about how Labour will raise taxes on savings and inheritance.

Labour want to re-distribute wealth to people who don't work. They started this yesterday by means testing the fuel allowance. They have ingnored the people who are only just above the pension credit income limit. These are the people who are likely to have worked in low paid jobs.

SPOT ON

take10yearsofmylife · 30/07/2024 21:46

Yes, it is very tough for hard working working class families. Sometimes I wonder is it worth sacrifice so much just to do the 'right thing' by putting money our pensions. May be we should just spend it all on holidays.

HoppityBun · 30/07/2024 21:46

PeachSnake · 30/07/2024 20:47

I agree. Save money all your life and get penalised, spend every last penny and get rewarded. Socialism.
Leave a decent inheritance and get taxed to hell for that too. Doesn't work

what are you calling socialism? We live in a capitalist society, as shown by your two sadly failed pension plans. Taxation isn’t socialist, we’ve had taxation since the Napoleonic wars. Socialism seeks to create equality of opportunities and believes that society’s basic needs, such as health, education and housing should be available to all. As far as I understand your point, you aren’t against benefits and support for the less well off: your complaint is that you are not eligible for those benefits, with which I sympathise. I should be happy to pay higher taxes to pay for benefits for those who need it, including you, of course.

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 30/07/2024 21:47

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 20:38

When all I will get is the bare State Pension. Whereas other people who did not make these contributions and/or did not work will get Pension Credit plus all the other nice little add ons like Council Tax Support, free boilers and now Winter Fuel Allowance? AIBU to think I'm a mug for bothering to work all those years?

Oh yeah great! Another stick to beat less fortunate/less lucky/less privileged people with! Hmm

Sick of seeing threads like this now.

Many people have not been as fortunate in life as you and some others @HauntedBungalow ! Your post comes across as very judgemental!

!

HauntedBungalow · 30/07/2024 21:47

THisbackwithavengeance · 30/07/2024 21:39

People on MN are always so quick to deny that people on benefits are doing well or better than some people in work.

You're right OP. It's not fair.

Why should people have to pay into a private pension as well as a state pension just to get the same as someone who's never worked?

Exactly. I wish I'd realised this at the start of my working life.

There's a fairly big middle ground where regardless of what you do, because your wage is so low and your costs are so high, what gets taken from you is so much and what you can't access is also so much you'll likely end up in the same situation as not straining yourself to any great degree.

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Fleetheart · 30/07/2024 21:47

No, Labour want to redistribute wealth to those who need it. They also have to try and reduce the social budget.

midgetastic · 30/07/2024 21:48

Labour want to redistribute wealth from the very rich to the very poor and less well off

Kind of like Robin Hood

If you would rather the Tory approach of taking from the poor to give to the rich - your can but don't expect any respect from me

I don't want children in poverty struggling to get a decent meal , their life chances blighted by their parents lack of wealth - shame on you if you don't care for them

NotRightNowPlease · 30/07/2024 21:49

Asking genuinely, worked since I was 13, had 1.5 years off due to mental breakdown, now 41, earning 35k. Have been steadily paying into workbased pension for the last five years (ish). Run myself ragged, 4 kids, 2 grown up, 2 in primary. I work really hard to propel us out of poverty. Am I doing this wrong? Aiming for payrise after payrise?

I don't want to seem goady, I just see working hard as the only way out of extortionate private rent and, well, poverty?

BigBoysDontCry · 30/07/2024 21:50

I've got 42 years of full credits and still 10 years to go until state pension age. I only had 10 months off total for maternity leave (2 kids) so none of those years is even for home responsibility credit.

It is what it is, not even that confident I'll get my state pension when it's time.

WhereIsBebèsChambre · 30/07/2024 21:52

@SiobhanTheGoblin Quality of life is not all about money. You've been able to socialise, have a routine and contribute to society in that time. I would try and reframe this in your mind as punching down on other people won't change anything.
Says who? People who've never had to worry about money as they know someone else picks up the tab? And honestly the guilt tripping 'punching down' trope doesn't work anymore. As you can tell by some on this thread getting told how privileged we are to work our arses off, have no quality time with our family yet watch lazy arses do nothing for generations? No ones buying it anymore.

Sunshineandrainbow · 30/07/2024 21:52

I have sadly thought the same recently. Worked 25 years paying into an nhs pension. Hasn't been easy as a single parent.
I rent which isn't ideal.
I have seen people recently who get state pension plus good work pension have to pay full rent and council tax yet those with just state pension get housing benefit, council tax help plus pension credit. Maybe I am missing something!

Maybe I should stop nagging my 27 year old daughter to start a pension.

runrabbitruns · 30/07/2024 21:53

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This is so naive. You do realise people lie ?

Unpopular opinion but many, many people know how to play the system. Maybe it's just a coincidence that in some neighbourhoods there are huge numbers of people too ill to work. Must be contagious.

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