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AIBU to wonder how on earth do people afford new cars ?

218 replies

CarsAreExpensive · 29/07/2024 17:12

OK, so I'm probably BU here but I really do wonder. I'm a single parent but earn what a lot of people consider a good salary of 100k. I rent, as its hard to get on the property ladder living in big city and can't move away as rely on family to help with childcare a bit.

Today I have driven through few areas / towns that are seen as deprived areas, full of council homes, refugees etc. I won't name the areas, but those areas are known for poverty. Anyway, every other driveway there was a brand new car on and I'm talking about Mercedes, bmw, audi, range rover. Houses and driveways looked terrible.

How on earth can people afford those cars ? Even HP agreements, those cars would be at least 400-500 per month if not more !

My car is getting old. 10 yrs old and I'd like better car but simply can't afford to spend that much money a month for something I won't own. Am I going somewhere wrong and missing the trick?

OP posts:
Sahara123 · 29/07/2024 22:07

iamtheblcksheep · 29/07/2024 19:51

I wouldn’t judge you. The motability scheme is meant for people on the higher level of the mobility part of PIP.

Id Have an issue if you were out cleaning said car every weekend as in that case you clearly aren’t entitled to the higher rate.

Some people just can’t get it into their heads that most decent people don’t begrudge spending money on the genuinely disabled. It’s those that are clearly milking the system that’s the issue.

Thank you. It’s for my daughter and if you could see her medical history you’d be amazed she’s alive quite frankly so I have no worries as to her eligibility.
Some of the posts here made me feel a bit sad and judged to be honest, as if there were millions of people claiming cars they were’t entitled to and we are somehow scrounging. It’s not that easy.

crackfoxy · 29/07/2024 22:09

Sosorryliver · 29/07/2024 17:37

I’d rather spend money on my house than a car so I always drive older cars. Some people have different priorities though.

Same!

FranceIsWhereItsAt · 29/07/2024 22:17

I bought a 1 year old car on HP, over 3 years, once it was paid off, I continued to put the monthly payment into a savings account, by the time the car was getting to the point where it needed regular work on it, so was no longer viable, I had enough in my savings account to buy another almost new car, and so it goes on.

PickAChew · 29/07/2024 22:18

florasl · 29/07/2024 20:03

One of ours is a company car, the other is leased. The total lease cost and insurance of our new Audi SUV was less than the insurance of our old diesel mid range SUV. When we included how much we’d spent on MOT, Repairs and depreciation of the one we owned outright we were better off leasing.

We did the same sort of sums when we decided to go for our motability car. Our 12 year old estate had just cost us a hefty sum to get through it's MOT and there was no way we could replace like for like. We calculated that it was costing us almost as much per month to keep the old rust bucket on the road as the motability forfeit would be.

So now we have a shiny new EV with enough cab space for 4 adults, 3 of them male, to be comfortable and just about enough boot space for all our stuff, including all the extra luggage we need for Ds2 if we stay anywhere overnight. Rare occurrence because it's such a ballache for everyone but we do like to visit my parents occasionally.

MUCHtodoAboutSomething · 29/07/2024 22:22

Malahide · 29/07/2024 21:57

Yep.. prepare yourself!! My last lease was taken out in 2020, just had to renew and in 4 years the price has nearly doubled for the same car 🙈

We were really lucky, as got the same car again 4 years later, brand new model, better features, and only £50 more. We fully expected to be downgrading, a slighter cheaper make of car was coming out more! It just goes to show, look out for car events, and shop around similar cars in the category you're after.

PickAChew · 29/07/2024 22:23

FranceIsWhereItsAt · 29/07/2024 22:17

I bought a 1 year old car on HP, over 3 years, once it was paid off, I continued to put the monthly payment into a savings account, by the time the car was getting to the point where it needed regular work on it, so was no longer viable, I had enough in my savings account to buy another almost new car, and so it goes on.

This is more or less what we had done for 2 decades, though without the actual HP. Only this time the sums didn't add up for a car that suited our needs. Cars cost more. Insurance costs more. Fuel costs more. Everything else costs more.

CarsAreExpensive · 29/07/2024 22:41

FranceIsWhereItsAt · 29/07/2024 22:17

I bought a 1 year old car on HP, over 3 years, once it was paid off, I continued to put the monthly payment into a savings account, by the time the car was getting to the point where it needed regular work on it, so was no longer viable, I had enough in my savings account to buy another almost new car, and so it goes on.

That's a fab idea! I will look into that :)

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Flopsythebunny · 29/07/2024 22:53

mitogoshi · 29/07/2024 17:55

Some couple be via motorbility, we don't use it but I investigated, new car every 3 years, costs covered bar fuel for approx £180 reduction in benefits. Due to circumstances makes more sense for dsd to have the money but if she came here full time I'd take the car

It's actually nearer £330 per month plus the advance payment. In my case, the advance payment was nearly 8k

FranceIsWhereItsAt · 29/07/2024 23:02

CarsAreExpensive · 29/07/2024 22:41

That's a fab idea! I will look into that :)

Glad to have been of assistance. I found it was a really easy way to do it, as having been used to paying out the HP money for 3 years, I didn't miss it once the loan was paid off, and it was nice to see it growing and even having interest added too. Gave me peace of mind about the next purchase I needed to make.

GettingStuffed · 29/07/2024 23:05

To stop people who assume people on PIP are fraudsters the DWP recently reported a PIP fraud level of 0.4%.

orangesandlemonssaythebellsofstclements · 29/07/2024 23:07

We own our car because my very much loved FIL died suddenly and we were given his car. Simple as that. If he was alive we would either still not have one or we would have a banger.
I would a million per cent give up the car to have him back. I'd give up anything. But the fact is we have it and it's very useful to us and has made a huge difference.
People on our street are probably wondering why we have a nice car when our guttering is a mess and our driveway needs redoing and our windows are old and crappy.
Fact is, you never know someone's personal circumstances and there are a million reasons someone might have something.

Emmanuelll · 29/07/2024 23:09

GettingStuffed · 29/07/2024 23:05

To stop people who assume people on PIP are fraudsters the DWP recently reported a PIP fraud level of 0.4%.

They won’t stop - it doesn’t suit them to stop blaming vulnerable people for the world’s problems.

Flopsythebunny · 29/07/2024 23:11

iamtheblcksheep · 29/07/2024 18:12

I am annoyed that the PIP scheme is exploited so that there isn’t MORE money for those that actually truly need help because of their disabilities.

Im also annoyed that decent people are going to lose something they rely on.

You can spin it as much as you like but my issue isn’t with the money given to disabled people. I have issues with those that could clearly work but don’t. Maybe if the false claimants were dealt with we could find disability services properly

More than 50% of people who are entitled to claim pip also work. Its an in work benefit designed to help with the extra costs of living with a disability. In my case, the care component goes on buying incontinence supplies, a carer to help me shower, help around the house and garden to do the jobs my disability stops me from being able to do . Any left at the end if the month is saved towards a weeks holiday in an adapted cottage but there hasn't been any left since 2018.
The mobility component pays for a wheelchair accessible vehicle such is renewed every 5 years. We have to pay the advance payment and adaptations of thousands of £ ourselves which is the equivalent of buying a 3 year old mid range car.

myslippersarepink · 29/07/2024 23:19

TheHopefulMum · 29/07/2024 17:28

I'm a single parent on 30k a year and I have a brand new car on PCP, renewed every 2 years.

I live in an area where my mortgage is very cheap in comparison so most areas, although it is not a 'poor' area or however you want to word it.

I traded in my old and battered car a few years back for a new one and although yes you have the monthly cost in the long run with what we were spending on the older car it seems worth it. We also have no MOT it's always under warranty and often the servicing is included and the tax for a year 🤷‍♀️

What car do you have and how much do you pay a month, if you don't mind me asking?

DoAClassicCamel · 29/07/2024 23:25

I have a new 24 plate vehicle via motability as I have just been awarded the higher rate of PIP. I have a degenerative, incurable condition which is why after the gruelling assessment I received the award for the next ten years. I do work 30 hours currently but I don’t anticipate that I will be working for the next ten years because of the way I will deteriorate. I’ll wait for someone to tell me I’m not disabled enough if I can work and that I should be grateful that I will be medically retired. I’d gladly swap the car, blue badge and early retirement for a clean bill of health.

XenoBitch · 29/07/2024 23:28

DoAClassicCamel · 29/07/2024 23:25

I have a new 24 plate vehicle via motability as I have just been awarded the higher rate of PIP. I have a degenerative, incurable condition which is why after the gruelling assessment I received the award for the next ten years. I do work 30 hours currently but I don’t anticipate that I will be working for the next ten years because of the way I will deteriorate. I’ll wait for someone to tell me I’m not disabled enough if I can work and that I should be grateful that I will be medically retired. I’d gladly swap the car, blue badge and early retirement for a clean bill of health.

Not from me. Enjoy your car and the independence it brings you.

LostTheMarble · 29/07/2024 23:29

iamtheblcksheep · 29/07/2024 19:51

I wouldn’t judge you. The motability scheme is meant for people on the higher level of the mobility part of PIP.

Id Have an issue if you were out cleaning said car every weekend as in that case you clearly aren’t entitled to the higher rate.

Some people just can’t get it into their heads that most decent people don’t begrudge spending money on the genuinely disabled. It’s those that are clearly milking the system that’s the issue.

What if it’s the parents who are leasing it for their child? I am a healthy adult but I have a child who could be entitled to the higher rate of mobility - it’s a very hard fight though. I know someone currently going through appeals for their 6 year old who is still 1 years old in every sense, despite a mountain of evidence they have still decided that said child can walk about adequately despite being in a specialist pram most of the time. If they do get a motability car, is it not allowed to be cleaned in case someone thinks they’re committing fraud?

ACynicalDad · 29/07/2024 23:32

If you can’t have the best house maybe you can have the best car.

Saltedbutter · 29/07/2024 23:32

LostTheMarble · 29/07/2024 23:29

What if it’s the parents who are leasing it for their child? I am a healthy adult but I have a child who could be entitled to the higher rate of mobility - it’s a very hard fight though. I know someone currently going through appeals for their 6 year old who is still 1 years old in every sense, despite a mountain of evidence they have still decided that said child can walk about adequately despite being in a specialist pram most of the time. If they do get a motability car, is it not allowed to be cleaned in case someone thinks they’re committing fraud?

I get the idea that the other poster would also be angry if PIP cars weren’t maintained. I don’t think they have a clue.

Crazycatlady79 · 29/07/2024 23:36

Some people will prioritise a car over other standards of living.
Even, say, in run down areas such as mine, there are a disproprtionate amount of what I'd call 'flash' cars.
I guess some may be Motability PIP related, others may be HP, other forms of loans etc.

LostTheMarble · 29/07/2024 23:37

Saltedbutter · 29/07/2024 23:32

I get the idea that the other poster would also be angry if PIP cars weren’t maintained. I don’t think they have a clue.

Some of the stereotypical nonsense coming out here, I’m shocked certain posters haven’t suggested that these undeserving people of motability cars aren’t also sticking 50 inch tvs in the back for all 200 of their kids that the government are paying for on top. All whilst they have to go chop wood for their poor, exceeding wealthy parents so they don’t freeze in their big house in the Home Counties this winter 🥺

Inlaw · 29/07/2024 23:45

I couldn’t afford one either. Until my 10yo car died and I had no choice. You cut your cloth as they say.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 29/07/2024 23:50

Different life choices and priorities?

I could afford a brand new car, either bought outright, with HP or through loans at those monthly costs, but I'm content with my 20 year old Volvo and when it dies, I'll probably get another second hand car which I'll buy outright.

We earn well. I'm not a car person, although my DH is, but he likes big vehicles that I don't wish to drive.

We prioritise fun, going out when we want, and having a beautiful home that is owned outright.

ILoveToCleanSaidNooneEver · 29/07/2024 23:56

Sorry, I meant to say I couldn't afford to buy a brand new car outright, but I could afford those monthly payments on a Loan or HP.

Malahide · 29/07/2024 23:58

iamtheblcksheep · 29/07/2024 19:51

I wouldn’t judge you. The motability scheme is meant for people on the higher level of the mobility part of PIP.

Id Have an issue if you were out cleaning said car every weekend as in that case you clearly aren’t entitled to the higher rate.

Some people just can’t get it into their heads that most decent people don’t begrudge spending money on the genuinely disabled. It’s those that are clearly milking the system that’s the issue.

Re: your ‘washing the car’ comment - you really are spectacularly tone deaf and ignorant as to what life with a disability can really look like. You obviously have no idea what you’re talking about, stop spouting such bigoted nonsense.

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