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Free breakfast clubs for ALL primary school children? Why?

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Safi7 · 29/07/2024 09:35

I’ve been overseas since the election so a bit out of the loop, but is it true that Labour are going to make it standard that all primary schools must now offer free breakfasts to all children, regardless of need?

Fair enough for children from deprived families - but all children?

Where is the money for this coming from?

Are Labour actually saying that in 2024, its now to much to expect parents to actually bother to feed their own children breakfast? This responsibility can just be pushed onto schools instead - as if they haven’t got enough on? Teachers are leaving in droves as it is. Du much is out in them - the jobs is becoming more like social work in too many cases. Who will staff these breakfast clubs and make sure kids are actually eating?

Surely this is just encouraging lazy parenting - ie parents who can well afford cereal / toast / eggs etc it but just won’t bother if their kids can eat at school instead. Plus children will be dumped at school earlier than necessary, just because parents can now get away with it?

Surely it’s better to direct resources where they are actually needed, rather than turn schools into free cafes? Makes no sense.

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NotAlexa · 29/07/2024 14:18

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 13:59

However, the evidence suggests that children who do not attend preschool or nursery start school behind (in all the measures you mentioned and in academic learning) and stay behind their peers throughout their education, hence why the 15 funded hours for 2 yos of parents on benefits was introduced.

Maybe you were a super-SAHM who had a sparkling routine involving a great balance of adult-directed activities and child-led play but I think many SAHMs THINK they are doing lots for their children's development but really struggle to keep motivation and consistency going over the long term and end up bored, lonely and relying on Netflix a lot whilst trying to muster up the energy to tidy up the never-ending mess that comes with children at home all day.

The best balance for me was part-time work which left me with enough energy to spend 2 full days doing fun things with my daughter. My role changed slightly and I had to go full time, but now she's due to start school in September anyway. And she is fully potty trained and able to dress herself- at last check she can change from her uniform to her PE kit and back again all the way to shoes and socks in 9 minutes.

100% with you on this. Mine was potty trained fully by 14 months and able to dress herself. I also put her in nursery from 9mo part time for 15 hrs, while this gave me 2 days of work a week. It was great! she socialised with other children so well, but also had no problem of attachment with all our family.

Research shows that early infant socialisation is absolutely crucial to adaptation to later life and these kids achieve significantly better life-work balance and happiness levels than those who have been patrolled by their prison guard parents.

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 14:20

WalkingonWheels · 29/07/2024 14:16

Have you ever been un a school? The children absolutely know who is on FSM and who isn't, from as young as Year 2.

No they don't. Even I didn't always know, and I was the teacher- let alone the children. I don't think even the children that got FSM knew for that matter, it was never discussed. In the morning, children either ordered their lunch from me or told me they had a packed lunch. The office dealt with chasing parents for payments if necessary and the only difference for FSM was that no parent was going online at home to pay.

RheaRend · 29/07/2024 14:20

Where are all these kids going to be?

Elyalbert · 29/07/2024 14:24

Safi7 · 29/07/2024 09:47

But if it was mainly about parents getting to work in time, they could just start earlier?

But then the teachers would have to start earlier (rather than the support staff running the breakfast club) and the school day would have to end earlier (which would not help working parents).

ClonedSquare · 29/07/2024 14:24

It's not (necessarily) about the food, it's about the school being open to accept children early so parents can go to work. I couldn't care less if my son got fed at "breakfast club" but being able to drop him off at 8 is the only way I can be at my office on time. But not having to pay for it would save us £120 a month in fees per child (£6 a day). That’s a significant amount for many working families, especially with 2 or 3 kids.

But also, universal free anything means the people who to need it are more likely to take it up. No having to use special tokens or other potentially embarrassing ways to say “I need the free one please” and identify yourself as in need.

catgirl1976 · 29/07/2024 14:24

I think this has two benefits.

  1. It makes sure all children can eat breakfast. That's a good thing.
  2. It makes it a lot easier for parents to work. That's also potentially a good thing and might possibly inject more into the economy than it costs.

I'd rather money was spent on initiatives like this than non-existent PPE from companies the cabinet had financial interests in.

NotAlexa · 29/07/2024 14:26

Coconutlattes · 29/07/2024 14:03

I agree those are all very good ideas

Except that Scandi countries have significantly higher taxation (twice as I've calculated recently my salary back home vs my salary taxation in the UK, and I am a higher rate payer). I'm not prepared to pay twice more taxes than I already do - that's why I move to the UK. I would rather get my baby to nursery at 9mo and work part time - better for the child's socialisation, better for me too.

ruby1957 · 29/07/2024 14:26

The use of the term absolute poverty is very misleading - globally it means those without the necessities of life.

Given the safety net of benefits - I cannot believe a third of the children in the UK are in absolute poverty.

Relative poverty - yes - and the help to alleviate that needs to be targetted to those in that category of need - not handed out to the likes of the MN demographic who can well-afford to care/nurture for their own children.

It is always the same arguement - the government (i.e. the taxpayer) must intervene to help all families (with free childcare etc) when that help comes at a cost to other targetted initiatives.

AvrielFinch · 29/07/2024 14:29

@ruby1957 absolute poverty means you do not have an income that means you can provide healthy food and a safe home. Lots of people in Britain are in absolute poverty. Lots of children live in damp and mouldy housing, live in vastly overcrowded housing, and their parents can not provide a healthy diet.
Single unemployed people living only on JSA are also judged to be in absolute poverty.

TeacheeTeacherson · 29/07/2024 14:30

Haven’t RTFT so sorry if someone has said this already, but I thought the idea isn’t ’free breakfast’ but ‘free breakfast club’ ie for childcare reasons. The food isn’t charged separately at these anyway, there’s an overall fee for attendance and breakfast is included. After school club still costs money, even if there is no food included.

NotAlexa · 29/07/2024 14:31

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 14:20

No they don't. Even I didn't always know, and I was the teacher- let alone the children. I don't think even the children that got FSM knew for that matter, it was never discussed. In the morning, children either ordered their lunch from me or told me they had a packed lunch. The office dealt with chasing parents for payments if necessary and the only difference for FSM was that no parent was going online at home to pay.

haha, the kids definitely do know 😆They make jokes and separate into groups based on this. What is more, is those who get FSM get noticed and it creates a 'priviledge free school club', which many other kids who have to pay for meals envy.

I remember the times we were fighting against 'men's only clubs' because of privilege, when some men had to pay to get into them, some didn't have to pay and women were excluded completely. Now it looks like in this thread we are creating exactly the same environment, but for children. This is what we've been fighting against for 100 years!

Free access of BCs for all kids eliminates bullying and privilege, creates better socialisation for young ones and supports interclass development.

somewhatmiffed · 29/07/2024 14:32

Piggiesinblankets · 29/07/2024 12:18

If you aren't doing something as basic as feeding your child before school then they shouldn't be in your care. End of. We should be supporting families to budget, earn, cook and provide for their own family. Not putting a plaster over child neglect.

Also I like to give my children a proper nutritious breakfast, eggs, avocado, rye bread, porridge etc. I don't want them having white bread toast when they get to school, on top of a breakfast that I provided.

I hate to disappoint you but social services base level for removing a child is shockingly low. And where would these children go? Do you think foster homes and care homes are better?

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 14:32

LiveAtThe · 29/07/2024 14:18

Hey in my world, all mums would return to work until there was true equality in the workplace and no gender pay gap. I went back full time when mine were babies. But I still think people need a choice.

Edited

Oh, I'm not saying that I personally don't think there should be a choice.
I just don't think we can expect the government to promote a choice that isn't beneficial to them.

jannier · 29/07/2024 14:34

Working in childcare....apart from how it eases the bills for people lots of parents don't do breakfast because they don't eat it so have kids that don't eat it amazingly though they eat it happily at mine.
If this means children are starting school with food in their tummies not just sweets and crisps it's got to improve outcomes.

WalkingonWheels · 29/07/2024 14:36

MrsSunshine2b · 29/07/2024 14:20

No they don't. Even I didn't always know, and I was the teacher- let alone the children. I don't think even the children that got FSM knew for that matter, it was never discussed. In the morning, children either ordered their lunch from me or told me they had a packed lunch. The office dealt with chasing parents for payments if necessary and the only difference for FSM was that no parent was going online at home to pay.

I can assure you, in most schools, they absolutely do. For a start, the children in receipt of FSM are regularly taken out of class for various incentives. When they go on trips and bring a packed lunch, the children on FSM are given a brown paper bag from the canteen.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/07/2024 14:38

@NotAlexa I do agree that in the scandi countries it is very much geared at both parents working- full time or almost full time -childcare is relatively cheap and as you say tax is high -that's just how their system works- and has far less couples on benefits too as although tax is high-wages tend to be higher too (unless you have what I call a highly paid job) I wouldn't say it's better or worse- just a different system - I can see that for parents who didn't want to work it could possibly be quite dull as I saw very few groups advertised for parents and babies/toddlers or pre school .

WalkingonWheels · 29/07/2024 14:40

Also, @MrsSunshine2b if you as the teacher didn't know which children were on FSM, how did you do targeted interventions? How did you measure their attainment in comparison to the others? 🤔

BananaLamah · 29/07/2024 14:42

My son goes to breakfast club. I have to feed him a proper breakfast before he goes because the school breakfast is just cheap white carbs, no protein. I still send him because I need childcare from 8am. Also they don’t have capacity for all of the kids in the school and I don’t see how they can magic that up.

If kids need free breakfast then by the same token they need free dinners? Currently dinners are only free for infants.

luckylavender · 29/07/2024 14:43

Sirzy · 29/07/2024 09:49

It’s about it being a level playing field too, if it’s done as a “you don’t have much money so you can come” thing then for too many pride would stop them using it. Having it universal stops there being any stigma related.

for many children having a much more relaxed start to the day helps massively. Getting children into school earlier also means they are in and ready for the start of lessons.

Starting the day having had breakfast is known to help. Making it universally available I think will help many. I doubt there are many school staff who haven’t had to go and find food for a child who has come into school hungry for whatever reason.

100% this

2ndMrsdeWinter · 29/07/2024 14:44

Whether the reason be breakfast, extended childcare or something else, it can only be a good thing.

Parents where I live mostly don’t work from home and have the ability to pop out to drop off their kids to school in a morning, which means they’re relient on wraparound care from as early as 7am.

The school breakfast club, run by a day nursery in the local area, charges £12.50 per child for breakfast - that’s a whopping £72.50 per week per child just for drop off - and you can see how it soon adds up if you have more than 1 and you need to pay the £17.50 after school fee too, pricing out some of the less wealthy families in the area.

This now means that the local childminders are massively oversubscribed and therefore often over their numbers ratios, which has led to some dangerous situations and some issues with some less than suitable people setting up businesses to make a penny, with little interest in the welfare of the children they care for.

It’s also well researched and understood that a suitable breakfast improves cognitive function and therefore academic performance in children and young people.

I would much rather my children be able to access affordable and properly managed breakfast clubs which are ran by schools staff whom they know and have good relationships with.

I’m sceptical that it will be provided for free but I’m certainly hopeful it will be.

Crikeyalmighty · 29/07/2024 14:45

@Piggiesinblankets out of interest (and not a criticism) do you work? Or maybe have a job WFH. That's pretty full on breakfast in the week day after day if parents are rushing to get kids ready and commute or be at work for 9am or earlier . My son certainly wouldn't have wanted that much at say 8am - as others have said it's a choice, as lots do actually get cereal and toast (or less) they won't notice a difference if they did go to breakfast club and it might help many working parents out- it's not compulsory . Lucky kids in your case though- sounds excellent- !!

AvrielFinch · 29/07/2024 14:45

somewhatmiffed · 29/07/2024 14:32

I hate to disappoint you but social services base level for removing a child is shockingly low. And where would these children go? Do you think foster homes and care homes are better?

Agreed. Not feeding your school age child will rarely be enough on its own.

RheaRend · 29/07/2024 14:45

When they go on trips and bring a packed lunch, the children on FSM are given a brown paper bag from the canteen.

That is anyone who has a lunch from school who gets that. Paid or not. A school lunch is also available to those who do not normally get it for trips as long as they pay.

Also FSM kids do not always have FSM. Many of ours bring their own lunches and reject the vouchers during the holidays.

WalkingonWheels · 29/07/2024 14:50

RheaRend · 29/07/2024 14:45

When they go on trips and bring a packed lunch, the children on FSM are given a brown paper bag from the canteen.

That is anyone who has a lunch from school who gets that. Paid or not. A school lunch is also available to those who do not normally get it for trips as long as they pay.

Also FSM kids do not always have FSM. Many of ours bring their own lunches and reject the vouchers during the holidays.

None of the schools I've ever taught in have offered a paid for packed lunch on trip days. The children not on FSM bring their own.

I'm aware of that. What's your point?

ItsAlrightDarling · 29/07/2024 14:53

Surely all teachers should be aware which children are in receipt of pupil premium (and therefore FSM) as those children should be receiving targeted intervention and tracking?

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