Myself and two girlfriends arranged a night out for the three us a few weeks ago. The night out is planned for this Saturday coming. One of the friends is in an on again off again relationship and myself and the third girl are dating.
Earlier this week my friend asked if she could bring the guy she is dating. I thought this was strange as it’s only their third date and he might feel uncomfortable him and 3 girls (two of which he has never met before). Anyway I the other girl said yes as I felt like I couldn’t really say I’d rather it just be us girls. Plus I thought well at least I have the third girl to pair up with/chat to. Now the girl with the on again off again boyfriend is inviting him as well!
They suggested I invite the guy I’m dating however I recently told them I was having doubts and would probably end things with him. So i don’t really want to invite him and I think they must know that given what I’ve said.
I don’t want to go on the night out and be the fith wheel. Am I justified in not going or am I overreacting? I’ve been the third / fith wheel before and it’s horrible. I’m also kind of annoyed at them for putting me in this position.
I don’t want to make a drama about it, I could just say I’m feeling ill and can’t make it. But they would suspect my reasons. I’m really disappointed as we’ve had this in the diary for ages and we don’t get to do nights out together very often! Why are some women just so obsessed with men that they will put any guy above anything/anyone else!