Hi, just before I go into it I'll just say that I haven't dated or even anything remotely close for years, so either i am overthinking things or have been oblivious to a co workers flirt attempts, that's the question really is he hitting on me. I have worked at my new job for a few months now and a certain guy has always made an effort to say hi and ask about my day, and recently has started asking me more questions like about my kids and who I live with etc, I tend to catch him looking at me a lot and he often winks at me, all could be platonic, then he offered to drop me home one evening after work and I accepted, all was platonic, he started to tell me that he was single etc and his goals normal conversation, the next day at work he randomly said to me "when are you inviting me for dinner then" while grinning and that's when i started to wonder omg is he hitting on me? He also made a joke about thinking about me while hes home in bed. I wouldn't mind getting to know him better but am I overthinking this? It's making me nervous at work but not in a way where I feel harassed just nervous! We are both early 30s so not teenagers but this is making me feel like one again 😊 what do I do if anything. Thanks in advance for any advice. Reposted under the AIBU thread