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AIBU?

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To think he just doesn’t care about me?

4 replies

ImConfusedHelp · 21/07/2024 22:26

Hi all, following on from a previous post, I really feel like DH just doesn’t care anymore. He doesn’t seem interested in my feelings and any time I bring it up I get told to ‘stop being so sensitive’. I know a lot of you will say LTB but we have 2 young DC who adore him and he’s a great father. He used to be really kind but I think the pressure of work has gotten to him? AIBU, should I just let him have his moment?

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Didimum · 21/07/2024 22:27

Would he be open to marriage counselling?

BCBird · 21/07/2024 22:28

U r not.his verbal punching bag.

Feelingmentallyunsettled · 22/07/2024 05:05

I looked up your previous thread OP.

He doesn't have any respect for your feelings or your boundaries. He doesn't care that you are upset by his behaviour. You have talked to him about it but he has every intention of just doing what he wants regardless of whether it hurts you.

I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a man with a porn habit. He has demonstrated it is more important to him than you and your feelings. You are not " too sensitive ".

XChrome · 22/07/2024 05:14

He's not a great father if he mistreats the mother of his children. He doesn't get to dismiss your feelings like that. YANBU.

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