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to ask how to not take rejection personally?

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yellowgummybears · 20/07/2024 19:13

As in romantic rejection.
I don't have bad hygiene, terrible manners, I'm not rude to wait staff or anything like that.

I don't talk excessively about myself, or have dates yawning and desperate to leave after an hour.

I guess they find me physically attractive to go on the date in the first place (This is usually pepple I've met in real life so they already know how I look!)

It'll just be a lack of chemistry.

I know it's stupid to take it personally, I respond politely but then just feel upset inside.

The last reasons I rejected the men were:
Guy #1, just didn't find him physically attractive (we never had a date), he sent me pictures of his body parts randomly (not explicit ones!), I was put off by his poor grammar (constant misuse of your and you're) etc.

Guy #2- Put his hands on me in an unsolicited way, had a very odd way of talking, kept saying 'mmmmm, yeaahhhhhh, mmmmmm' very slowly then announced loudly in front of a crowd 'Weve got a date!!" On the first date.

So it was personal even though I would not say that to them.
Anyway, i need help developing a thicker skin.. I'm mof expecting every single man to fancy me, but I want some to at least!

OP posts:
BowlOfNoodles · 20/07/2024 19:15

Its a horrible feeling no matter who you are

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