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Hairdresser cancelled appointment at my appointment time

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TheAfterthought · 20/07/2024 14:03

I'll try and keep this as concise as possible!

I had an appointment with my hairdresser today. I arrived at the salon and messaged her upon my arrival (Salon is on the first floor building and door is number coded for access). I waited a couple of minutes expecting the door to be open and greeted by my hairdresser. Instead, I receive a text message from her informing me she's unwell and been unwell all week and not in work today and that she's really sorry and will offer me a discount next time if I want to rebook.

Being unwell is one thing and I hope she feels much better soon. That said, texting me AFTER I confirm my arrival for my appointment is what's pissed me off. I arranged my day around this appointment. She says she's been ill all week so I would have thought she knows herself enough to know she had no plans on going into work while still feeling poorly and would have had the courtesy to message me much sooner (without prompting).

She works in a salon with other hairdressers. If she was so ill surely she could have asked one of them to call me and let me know, apologise for the inconvenience and rebook me in at a later date? Or offer to book me in with someone else the same day or later date as no idea how long she will be off sick for? Even as options that would have been appreciated to have been asked. Peter of thise options were offered.

I haven't replied to her message yet because I'm pissed off and I don't want to say anything mean to her because she's unwell. I don't think I can hide a sarcastic tone at the moment.

If this illness was an emergency then I would have understood, emergencies just happen. But she's been ill for a week and not had the thought or if she did, she didn't action the thought to contact me.

I'm unsure whether to give the hairdresser the benefit of the doubt. She's done a good job with my hair cuts previously. I'm a fairly new customer so only been to her twice before but I have been happy with her work. Or, should I find another hairdresser and take my business elsewhere?

I'm geared towards not replying and going elsewhere. Customers shouldn't be treated as an afterthought. It's not a way to run a business. Having worked in customer service for too many years lol 😆 I know how I don't like to be treated and I wouldn't treat a customer that way no matter how long they were a customer for.

I'm interested in outside opinions about this because I'm fed up and long term don't want to act in haste without considering further input.

YABU: Give the hairdresser the benefit of the doubt and rebook the appointment and make use of the discount.
YANBU: Find another hairdresser and take your business elsewhere.

Thanks for reading 😊

OP posts:
HillBillieEilish · 20/07/2024 21:45

@Thedayb4youcame but if I sent that it would be my intention to make her feel shit, would it not? She can't be that sick, she replied quickly. She had the ability to text.

LlynTegid · 20/07/2024 21:56

Take your business elsewhere. The salon should have a way of contacting you once it is known an appointment cannot be kept. Not on the day if that can be avoided. Even if it is another stylist who contacts you.

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 20/07/2024 23:40

@Thedayb4youcame I agree actually, I'd give the benefit of the doubt much more to my local garage (they're amazing!) before my hairdresser 👍

GodspeedJune · 21/07/2024 00:01

Rebook and then don’t turn up. When she texts to ask where you are, say that you’re home due to illness.

billyt · 21/07/2024 00:58

Aquamarine1029 · 20/07/2024 14:05

It happened, it shouldn't have, but no one died and life goes on. Either except her apology and discount or go somewhere else.

If you are going to make excuses for shitty treatment of a paying customer, at least learn to spell.

It's 'accept her apology' not except.

Miffylou · 21/07/2024 04:41

GodspeedJune · 21/07/2024 00:01

Rebook and then don’t turn up. When she texts to ask where you are, say that you’re home due to illness.

Why? Either it was unavoidable for the hairdresser to do that, in which case it's just petty and unkind, or it was rude and wrong for her to do it, in which case it would be rude and wrong for the OP too.

diktat · 21/07/2024 05:22

crockofshite · 20/07/2024 17:13

I don't believe her, she's lying.

She's double booked you or taken a day off and forgotten to rearrange.

If she was really sick, she or the salon would have let you know before now.

Bin her, find another hairdresser.

I agree.

But just ignore her text, don’t burn your bridges with a cutting response. You never know if you may need her in future as a last resort.

Bumpinthenight · 21/07/2024 06:02

Mine didn't turn up yesterday. 45minutes after my appt, she phoned and said she'd broken down. Didn't have signal where she was apparently.

New appt made for a few hours later and my hair was done for free. She even paid the deposit back.

Ikuyo · 21/09/2024 03:14

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