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AIBU?

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To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?

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MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 09:59

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them.

They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including the one at the start of the dog walking trail), meaning I need to park at the furthest away one. Not a problem except I can't get to the furthest away one because volunteers stop the traffic to let the runners go past.

Once I get parked, I'm pushed to the side of all the main paths because they're running 3 or 4 abreast. I try to go down the muddier gravel paths, but they're down there too. An older couple today got a "fuck sake" because they couldn't move out of one runners way quick enough.

Parents are being stopped from crossing the path between car park and playground with their kids because the runners are passing by.

I get that Parkrun is fantastic for people's physical health and mental health, and it's clearly very popular but AIBU to think they need to be courteous of other park users too?

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TheCadoganArms · 20/07/2024 11:22

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:06

I agree 100% with you. The tyranny of the majority. This is the middle-class equivalent of gangs of youths terrorising a town centre with their weight of numbers.

This is such a batshit take. A bunch of health conscious people kicking off their weekend with a 5km jog that is done and dusted while many people are still in bed is the equivalent of gangs of youths terrorising a town centre. You absolute muppet.

Sherrystrull · 20/07/2024 11:24

Just wait for a large enough gap and cross over. It's hardly a major issue, akin to waiting at traffic lights, waiting for a piece of playground equipment to be free or a space in the supermarket to view cheese choices.

If there's a flow of runners then stepping out infront of them is unsafe and unnecessary.

BitOutOfPractice · 20/07/2024 11:25

Just seen some of your updates.

you want to crack down on all park runs because I couple of people were rude, at a park you barely use anyway.

As I say, I live overlooking a park run start / finish and, throughout the week I see far more shitty behaviour from dog walkers then park runners. Perhaps we should ban all dog walkers because some of them are knobs eh?

Beekeepingmum · 20/07/2024 11:25

Much prefer parkrunners to the puppy enslavers who let their pets round around and shit all over public spaces. I think the dog walkers would limited in the same way as parkrun may allowing walks from 1pm till 2pm providing they provide marshals and volunteers to pick up the poo.

thefireplace · 20/07/2024 11:25

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:21

Football in parks is played on marked-out pitches, used for that purpose. Park runs commandeer the paths that the public use, making them unusable.

If park runners ran round and round a football pitch, that would be a reasonable compromise.

What nonsense is this?

Just stand to one side as they come past or explore other paths within the wood or park?

I'm sure the locals footie training will be well pissed off if 250 people ran around the pitch in all weathers, churning it up.

But you know this, being a runner 😂

Threefeetmore · 20/07/2024 11:26

Excited101 · 20/07/2024 11:06

There’s some right dickheads at parkrun, but don’t worry- they’re dickheads to the other parkrunners as well as you! That’s just life! It’s an hour (and a bit) per week, you know when it’s on, just avoid it then!

This is probably it, actually.

WorriedRelative · 20/07/2024 11:27

mumbo34 · 20/07/2024 10:06

It's literally for an hour on a Saturday morning. Could you not do your dog walk before or after?

The problem is that people who don't do park run often don't know it is happening. It isn't advertised on venue websites as it is independent.

We turned up to a large national trust park and found ourselves in the middle of a park run takeover. Complete with traffic being held for ages, not allowing access to certain car parks and hogging the paths.

Duckinglunacy · 20/07/2024 11:27

I think there are multiple questions here:

  1. is it reasonable that once a week many public spaces are used for parkrun?
  2. should parkrun be better at sharing the space with other park users?
  3. is the behaviour of some parkrunners appalling?

the answer to all three in my mind is a resounding yes! Parkrun HQ are brilliant if you have cause to complain (as I have in the past due to verbal abuse from a parkrun volunteer). Parkrun sections have strict orders to share the space effectively. If that’s not happening then report!

Corfucrab · 20/07/2024 11:29

It’s for one hour a week. The park is for everyone and this is a fabulous community initiative (I’m not a runner )

DoraTheIgnora · 20/07/2024 11:29

Park Run times are usually quite widely publicised, so if the mass of runners annoys you it’s very easy to avoid it.

Threefeetmore · 20/07/2024 11:29

BitOutOfPractice · 20/07/2024 11:25

Just seen some of your updates.

you want to crack down on all park runs because I couple of people were rude, at a park you barely use anyway.

As I say, I live overlooking a park run start / finish and, throughout the week I see far more shitty behaviour from dog walkers then park runners. Perhaps we should ban all dog walkers because some of them are knobs eh?

Where did OP say she wanted to crack down on all park runs? Ive just looked at all her posts and all I can see is her asking for some consideration

herecomestherain1 · 20/07/2024 11:30

It's an hour, at 9am, once a week...

SilkFloss · 20/07/2024 11:30

MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 10:07

I can and do walk my dog at different times of the day. But the older couple with their dog? The parents with their kids? Do they also need to change their schedules just because Parkrun HAS to be this 90 minute slot on Saturdays?

Erm, yes.
What has the "older" couple's age got to do with it? It could be argued that they have all day to walk it if they're past working age?
Parkruns are part of life - and I think anything that encourages and promotes exercise and outdoor life is a good thing. There's room for all.

LadyFeatheringt0n · 20/07/2024 11:32

There should be more sensible numbers caps. There's one near me that has hundreds and hundreds of runners. Its too many for the size of park, local transport capacity to handle in a concentrated window of time, and its damaging to the footpaths.

It just needs to be capped. It would actually be less inconvenient if there were two sessions to spread the volume of people out.

A lot of the runners are quite arrogant and obsessive - so dead set on beating their time they'll expect anyone to leap out of their way with zero acknowledgement or apology.

InsensibleMe · 20/07/2024 11:32

WorriedRelative · 20/07/2024 11:27

The problem is that people who don't do park run often don't know it is happening. It isn't advertised on venue websites as it is independent.

We turned up to a large national trust park and found ourselves in the middle of a park run takeover. Complete with traffic being held for ages, not allowing access to certain car parks and hogging the paths.

Was that Wimpole Park? Entry to the carparks may be a bit slow at 8:40am, but then the runners head out into the park on pretty wide paths, and reappear 30 minutes later. Really not that awful.

BlondiBleach · 20/07/2024 11:32

UprootedSunflower · 20/07/2024 10:53

Why not contact them with your concerns and suggest improvements? What is manageable and realistic? What has a disproportionate impact? Could one carpark be a non-park run one? Is there a diversion away from one particular path that would make a world of difference? Could you ask them to contact runners about etiquette in the park?
Often organisers are reasonable people doing a lot but who are simply unaware of impact. When communicated with piloted they are up for adjustments or flagging issues.

@MaryRoze
This is a great suggestion

BitOutOfPractice · 20/07/2024 11:32

Threefeetmore · 20/07/2024 11:29

Where did OP say she wanted to crack down on all park runs? Ive just looked at all her posts and all I can see is her asking for some consideration

She thinks they shouldn’t get “priority” for parking, she thinks they take up too much pathway, she thinks that her need to park without delay overrides park run’s policy of safety marshalling. Sounds like she’s after some curb to it to me.

MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 11:33

Duckinglunacy · 20/07/2024 11:27

I think there are multiple questions here:

  1. is it reasonable that once a week many public spaces are used for parkrun?
  2. should parkrun be better at sharing the space with other park users?
  3. is the behaviour of some parkrunners appalling?

the answer to all three in my mind is a resounding yes! Parkrun HQ are brilliant if you have cause to complain (as I have in the past due to verbal abuse from a parkrun volunteer). Parkrun sections have strict orders to share the space effectively. If that’s not happening then report!

Three yesses from me too!

I will contact the organisers and mention what happened today.

As I was walking past the Parkrun tent, I saw a little girl about 3/4 years old in a Disney princess dress and a high viz vest. Absolutely bloomin adorable Grin

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DameKatyDenisesClagnuts · 20/07/2024 11:34

Running is one of those things where some people managing to do it makes others feel defensive. Maybe a bit of introspection required for those who have such a visceral response to runners

RunningAndSinging · 20/07/2024 11:34

I am sorry some of the parkrunners are rude. We are reminded every week at the briefing that we do not have right of way over other park users. Most parkrunners are courteous but there are always some selfish people. Report to the run director and they will speak to the people if they can be identified or to everyone via social media or next week’s run brief. It is a defined route at a defined time once a week and most of the crowds have gone after 30 minutes. At least you can avoid the time or the route if it is that bad.

Fizbosshoes · 20/07/2024 11:35

Duckinglunacy · 20/07/2024 11:27

I think there are multiple questions here:

  1. is it reasonable that once a week many public spaces are used for parkrun?
  2. should parkrun be better at sharing the space with other park users?
  3. is the behaviour of some parkrunners appalling?

the answer to all three in my mind is a resounding yes! Parkrun HQ are brilliant if you have cause to complain (as I have in the past due to verbal abuse from a parkrun volunteer). Parkrun sections have strict orders to share the space effectively. If that’s not happening then report!

is the behaviour of some parkrunners people appalling?

I imagine there are some appallingly behaved parkrunners but that's not because they are doing parkrun, it's because they're a common or garden idiot, who sadly you meet in all situations (some dog walkers are idiots, some parents are idiots, some van drivers are idiots, etc etc you get them everywhere!)

...but you're right, there is at least a facility to report anti social behaviour at parkrun!

SeismicSalad · 20/07/2024 11:35

MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 10:29

Well it's 10.25 now and that's the bulk of the runners heading back to their cars. I'm surprised by people saying that kids/families/other walkers should wait until 10.30 before using the public park. I don't think it's particularly early. Lots of kids here already.

Parkrun starts at 9am. Anyone still there after 10am is definitely not running and I can’t see how they’d be in your way.

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:35

thefireplace · 20/07/2024 11:25

What nonsense is this?

Just stand to one side as they come past or explore other paths within the wood or park?

I'm sure the locals footie training will be well pissed off if 250 people ran around the pitch in all weathers, churning it up.

But you know this, being a runner 😂

How about the runners "run to one side" or "explore other paths"? No - they are determined to do what they want to do without compromise.

Your post is literally saying defer to the mob.

raspberryberet7 · 20/07/2024 11:35

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 20/07/2024 10:05

No, I disagree, it’s a first come basis, park runs mostly last between 60/90 mins.

It’s the same with any public car park.

This. Go at a different time

Watchkeys · 20/07/2024 11:36

@MaryRoze

Who should have priority?

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