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AIBU?

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To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?

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MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 09:59

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them.

They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including the one at the start of the dog walking trail), meaning I need to park at the furthest away one. Not a problem except I can't get to the furthest away one because volunteers stop the traffic to let the runners go past.

Once I get parked, I'm pushed to the side of all the main paths because they're running 3 or 4 abreast. I try to go down the muddier gravel paths, but they're down there too. An older couple today got a "fuck sake" because they couldn't move out of one runners way quick enough.

Parents are being stopped from crossing the path between car park and playground with their kids because the runners are passing by.

I get that Parkrun is fantastic for people's physical health and mental health, and it's clearly very popular but AIBU to think they need to be courteous of other park users too?

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SoreAndTired1 · 20/07/2024 11:01

YANBU, they are selfish arseholes. Hassling elderly people really is the limit. If they want to run let them find an abandoned field somewhere, not where the public have to be inconvenienced by them. Can't fucking stand them!

LlynTegid · 20/07/2024 11:02

People exercising, same time every week. Local people, so the benefits of their exercise may have indirect benefits as they have better health. Whilst some could have walked there instead of using their unnecessary SUV, visiting the area at another time of the day is not a great difficulty, surely?

It's not as if you are having to cope with the hordes of people who visit a place just outside Manchester on about 25 occasions a year whose times varies even on a Saturday who have no connection to the area at all.

Luio · 20/07/2024 11:02

I have never done a park run but isn’t it once a week for an hour? They never shit in the park and then leave it for others to tread in and they don’t chase and attack ducklings and other wildlife I would like to ban dog walkers but I realise I am being unreasonable because quite a lot of people like owning dogs.

FOJN · 20/07/2024 11:02

MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 10:29

Well it's 10.25 now and that's the bulk of the runners heading back to their cars. I'm surprised by people saying that kids/families/other walkers should wait until 10.30 before using the public park. I don't think it's particularly early. Lots of kids here already.

No one is saying anyone has to wait until the park run is over. Posters are suggesting you change your time because you have a problem with the park run. Other people may be quite happy to share.

It's a public park, if the park run pisses you off but you choose to go to the park at the same time as the park run then you are choosing to be pissed off. Why would you do that to yourself?

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 11:02

Whaleandsnail6 · 20/07/2024 10:57

I very much think that noone should be being rude or swearing at anyone, however I do think you are being unreasonable.

It sounds like you are purposely being difficult trying to turn into the carpark when you know the area is being used for park run and therefore busy. You know thw event is on at this time every week so why try and use the car park when there will be heavy footfall of people running?

As the saying goes, if you cant beat em join em, you are more than welcome in park run to walk your dog for the event or part of the event and vear off. Why not just start at the back of group so they aren't in your way if you have to be in the park at that exact time

She was trying to use the other car parks but they were full. Park run are definitely being unreasonable if they are denying people access to the only empty car park. Perhaps they should direct all runners to park in that car park and leave the ones which are not blocked by runners free? After all the runners would only need to park there once a week..

InsensibleMe · 20/07/2024 11:03

My local parkrun always emphasises respect for other park users. We have marshalls to pause runners at two road entrances. Most runners have finished by 9:40am and the course is practically empty by 10:00am. Not that big an imposition surely? YABVU.

Gymmum82 · 20/07/2024 11:03

MereDintofPandiculation · 20/07/2024 10:47

My friend moans about a cycle race road closure which means that for her daily visit to her elderly mum she has to get out before 8am and stay out to the evening. OK for the Tour de France, but now it’s turned into an annual thing. I think she has every right to moan!

One day a year she is inconvenienced. Nah she has no right to moan. She can get the bus or leave her car on another road and walk to it. We have a half marathon pass through our village once a year. If I need to get out I park outside the village and walk 15 mins to my car. It’s not a massive drama. Like I said. People love to moan

LuckySantangelo35 · 20/07/2024 11:04

Spinet · 20/07/2024 10:05

Totally agree, but unfortunately cult of running is unlikely to change any time soon.

@Spinet

the cult of running” !?
lol
you should try it

Fizbosshoes · 20/07/2024 11:05

PuttingDownRoots · 20/07/2024 10:54

I think some Parkruns have outgrown their environment, and its the sheer volume rather than individuals causing problems.

We went a few times... before realising driving 30 mins, to run 30 mins, to then drive home was bloody pointless and we could run around the local woods instead!

Maybe they need maximum numbers?

My local parkrun did, and they changed the course to make it safer and easier to accommodate a lot of people but the new course is so much slower

ricecrispiecakes · 20/07/2024 11:05

FOJN · 20/07/2024 11:02

No one is saying anyone has to wait until the park run is over. Posters are suggesting you change your time because you have a problem with the park run. Other people may be quite happy to share.

It's a public park, if the park run pisses you off but you choose to go to the park at the same time as the park run then you are choosing to be pissed off. Why would you do that to yourself?

Exactly.

Choosing to do the same non-essential thing every week even though you know you'll be pissed off is just bonkers behaviour.

InsensibleMe · 20/07/2024 11:05

SoreAndTired1 · 20/07/2024 11:01

YANBU, they are selfish arseholes. Hassling elderly people really is the limit. If they want to run let them find an abandoned field somewhere, not where the public have to be inconvenienced by them. Can't fucking stand them!

What is ‘an abandoned field’? Do such things exist in Britain?

supersonicginandtonic · 20/07/2024 11:05

Why is this even an issue for you? Parkrun has been going on for years. If you are so bothered by it, go at a different time or walk your dog elsewhere. There problem solved.
I don't do Parkrun but it is on in our local park and advertised as so, so if I was bothered by it I would go 🤷‍♀️

Excited101 · 20/07/2024 11:06

There’s some right dickheads at parkrun, but don’t worry- they’re dickheads to the other parkrunners as well as you! That’s just life! It’s an hour (and a bit) per week, you know when it’s on, just avoid it then!

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:06

I agree 100% with you. The tyranny of the majority. This is the middle-class equivalent of gangs of youths terrorising a town centre with their weight of numbers.

Trinity65 · 20/07/2024 11:07

YANBU

Summertimer · 20/07/2024 11:09

That’s very it’s timed early in the day rather than at peak or usual times for parents to be in park with kids. It’s also timed not too early so dog walkers can do their early walks

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 11:09

ricecrispiecakes · 20/07/2024 11:05

Exactly.

Choosing to do the same non-essential thing every week even though you know you'll be pissed off is just bonkers behaviour.

Yet Park runner still turn up every week.

NotSayingImBatman · 20/07/2024 11:10

Apolloneuro · 20/07/2024 10:18

If you did that to me, I’d push you over.

Lol, no you wouldn’t.

Gobshite.

Namename12345562 · 20/07/2024 11:10

Hmmm there’s a park run near me and when I’m heading to my gym class around 930am people are already returning from it… I see kids, families, people walking their dogs etc in the park far more often which is fine but I think they all manage to get more than their fair share of the park free from park run runners 🤷🏻‍♀️

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 20/07/2024 11:11

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 11:09

Yet Park runner still turn up every week.

Confused Well yes. Presumably they are not pissed off by Parkrun though, since they are participating in it.

decionsdecisions62 · 20/07/2024 11:11

On a sat am I go to the woods instead. The rest of the week I have the park. I think you are making a fuss. If I was elderly ( nearly there at 57) and retired I wouldn't choose to go at that time when I have all week to choose from.

LuckySantangelo35 · 20/07/2024 11:11

Why do some people hate runners? Jealousy?

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:11

musicforthesoul · 20/07/2024 10:53

People should be polite, and it's made clear when you join a park run it's not a closed race course, the paths are shared usage and runners don't have priority over anyone else using the park. If they aren't respecting that they should be.

Practically, once you've hit a critical mass of people on a path travelling the same way, it's going to be difficult to use if you aren't travelling with the group even if people are trying to be considerate. Park runners don't have more right to be there than any one else, but they do have a right to be there.

Car parks are first come first serve and if you know there is an event on at a certain time every week plan accordingly. Not got much sympathy with that. If park run got cancelled but lots of people decided to come running individually you'd have the same issue.

Practically, once you've hit a critical mass of people on a path travelling the same way, it's going to be difficult to use if you aren't travelling with the group even if people are trying to be considerate.

Exactly. It's a systematic problem that suggests that, however well-meaning and well-behaved the Park Run zealots think they're being, a massive running event is incompatible with the regular use of a public park.

FOJN · 20/07/2024 11:11

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 11:09

Yet Park runner still turn up every week.

?????

The park runners aren't posting about being pissed off with the dog walkers.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 20/07/2024 11:12

MasterBeth · 20/07/2024 11:06

I agree 100% with you. The tyranny of the majority. This is the middle-class equivalent of gangs of youths terrorising a town centre with their weight of numbers.

Oh fgs. It's an organised event, not a marauding mob.

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