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AIBU?

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To think Parkrun shouldn't take priority over the rest of the public?

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MaryRoze · 20/07/2024 09:59

9.30am every Saturday, our biggest park is inundated with Parkrunners. There are hundreds of them.

They take up the 3 biggest car parks (including the one at the start of the dog walking trail), meaning I need to park at the furthest away one. Not a problem except I can't get to the furthest away one because volunteers stop the traffic to let the runners go past.

Once I get parked, I'm pushed to the side of all the main paths because they're running 3 or 4 abreast. I try to go down the muddier gravel paths, but they're down there too. An older couple today got a "fuck sake" because they couldn't move out of one runners way quick enough.

Parents are being stopped from crossing the path between car park and playground with their kids because the runners are passing by.

I get that Parkrun is fantastic for people's physical health and mental health, and it's clearly very popular but AIBU to think they need to be courteous of other park users too?

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MrsAvocet · 20/07/2024 13:01

It should be up to park run to stop running events that inconvenience people.
Which would be all Park Runs. And assuming the same rule was also applied, most races of any kind, lots of other sporting events, carnivals, village fetes, music festivals and parades of any type should also be banned...pretty much any public event in fact as they probably all inconvenience someone.

MereDintofPandiculation · 20/07/2024 13:02

Gymmum82 · 20/07/2024 11:03

One day a year she is inconvenienced. Nah she has no right to moan. She can get the bus or leave her car on another road and walk to it. We have a half marathon pass through our village once a year. If I need to get out I park outside the village and walk 15 mins to my car. It’s not a massive drama. Like I said. People love to moan

"get the bus"? The one that runs along the road that is closed?

The local geography, sandwiched between hill and river, means all the roads within walking distance are accessed only by the road which is closed. parking the car on another road and walking to it doesn't solve the problem. It's not just her who is "inconvenienced", it's the entire village population. And they don't see any of the much-vaunted "economic benefits".

Runb2 · 20/07/2024 13:03

Watchkeys · 20/07/2024 12:59

@Floralnomad

This gets the prize for most ridiculous post of the day , why would anybody feel inadequate among runners

It's quite common, and it's one of the reasons that Parkrun exists; to encourage those who are intimidated by joining running clubs/big races to start running. Just because you personally haven't come across a mindset, doesn't mean it's ridiculous to suggest it. Well, you might think it does, but... why do you think that 'what you've personally come across' is any kind of barometer?

Exactly that. The number of people who are disdainful/ angry about other people doing exercise is significant. Yet when you dig deeper it is usually down to personal insecurity or desire to join in, but feeling unable to. Parkrun is for everyone and that includes people who just want to walk.

Meadowfinch · 20/07/2024 13:04

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 20/07/2024 12:03

@MaryRoze why do they all have to run together? why cant they do their running near their homes? its not as if they can merrily chatter with each other on the way!

Parkrun is a community. It is a social activity for many. ParkRuns offer chipped times, accurately measured distances and have first aiders and sometimes pacers. Runners provide each other with motivation. It's a great way to meet new people and make new friends. All things that aren't available running by one's self.

And plenty of people do chat as they run round, although that's not something I've ever managed.

I run alone during the week, and ParkRun at the weekends. Most people do both.

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:06

Other park users absolutely should not be excluded from the park every week. If Park run want exclusive access, as many posters seem to think they should so they don’t have to give way to other park users, they should be paying the councils or other landowners handsomely for it to compensate others for their lack of access.

MeouwCat · 20/07/2024 13:08

Watchkeys · 20/07/2024 12:59

@Floralnomad

This gets the prize for most ridiculous post of the day , why would anybody feel inadequate among runners

It's quite common, and it's one of the reasons that Parkrun exists; to encourage those who are intimidated by joining running clubs/big races to start running. Just because you personally haven't come across a mindset, doesn't mean it's ridiculous to suggest it. Well, you might think it does, but... why do you think that 'what you've personally come across' is any kind of barometer?

I think this lies behind the irrational hatred of cyclists too.

Ginmonkeyagain · 20/07/2024 13:11

@Sloejelly other park users are absolutely not excluded. Parkruns take up a tiny section of the park, identified and agreed in consultation with the park owner, for just over an hour. That is it.

Often it is parkrun has to move aside for other park activities - we have a lot cancelled ones round here to allow for summer events to take place in the parks.

MeouwCat · 20/07/2024 13:13

I am off to my Park run — now. I can't be arsed to get up at 7 - 30 on a Saturday. I usually just urn up in the afternoon and do it on my own. I think you can even email in your solo time, if you want to. Though I dont bother.

Differentstarts · 20/07/2024 13:13

Yabu because it's literally an hour so you can go any other time. If you choose to go at that exact time just to moan about it that's on you

MeouwCat · 20/07/2024 13:15

Also, if I do it on my own, I can start at the front, not at the back (I am a very slow old runner[; which means I am running 5k and not 5.1k

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:16

Differentstarts · 20/07/2024 13:13

Yabu because it's literally an hour so you can go any other time. If you choose to go at that exact time just to moan about it that's on you

Then Park Run should pay for that hour.

Meadowfinch · 20/07/2024 13:17

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:06

Other park users absolutely should not be excluded from the park every week. If Park run want exclusive access, as many posters seem to think they should so they don’t have to give way to other park users, they should be paying the councils or other landowners handsomely for it to compensate others for their lack of access.

ParkRunners generally don't want exclusive access as far as I know and I've been running them for a decade.

I turn up, I chat to anyone around, I run the course, avoiding dog walkers, children, dogs, drone pilots, cyclists. Register my time, and then head home. I don't want or expect anyone to be excluded.

What seems to have annoyed the OP, is that other people have already parked in a parking space she regarded as hers. And that is most definitely her problem. She should get there earlier if she wants to be assured of a PUBLIC parking space.

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:19

Meadowfinch · 20/07/2024 13:17

ParkRunners generally don't want exclusive access as far as I know and I've been running them for a decade.

I turn up, I chat to anyone around, I run the course, avoiding dog walkers, children, dogs, drone pilots, cyclists. Register my time, and then head home. I don't want or expect anyone to be excluded.

What seems to have annoyed the OP, is that other people have already parked in a parking space she regarded as hers. And that is most definitely her problem. She should get there earlier if she wants to be assured of a PUBLIC parking space.

Yet a large number of posters are saying that park run is ‘only an hour’ and others should turn up at another time,

tallcurvey · 20/07/2024 13:20

@MaryRoze

could agree more.
arrogance is the word plus the noise at the end.

Ginmonkeyagain · 20/07/2024 13:20

No. They are saying of parkrun bothers them they should use it at a different time.

Different.

Idtotallybangdreamoftheendlessnotgonnalie · 20/07/2024 13:20

Beekeepingmum · 20/07/2024 11:25

Much prefer parkrunners to the puppy enslavers who let their pets round around and shit all over public spaces. I think the dog walkers would limited in the same way as parkrun may allowing walks from 1pm till 2pm providing they provide marshals and volunteers to pick up the poo.

Puppy enslavers? Utter, peak mumsnet 🤣

Sirzy · 20/07/2024 13:22

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:19

Yet a large number of posters are saying that park run is ‘only an hour’ and others should turn up at another time,

If they don’t want to share the park with other people then yes avoiding a time it is known to be busy is best!

Just like there is a fayre on at a local beauty spot today. I don’t fancy being in the crowds so I’m not going to go along and then complain that there are people there!

mommatoone · 20/07/2024 13:22

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:16

Then Park Run should pay for that hour.

And do what? Give park run exclusive access for that hour so no one else can use it? What a great idea. Not. Can you imagine the uproar! How about as adults, we make the decision to go before / after park run or just get on with it, and stop moaning.

TooTired2024 · 20/07/2024 13:23

So many people love the park runs, and around here they're only once a week. The runners who are rude would be rude whether they were on a park run or running by themselves, that's an individual issue, not a park run problem. You could say the same about rude dog walkers with out of control dogs - should we ban all dogs because of issues with a few individuals? (I'm 100% not saying we should btw, just for illustration)

I've got no skin in the game, I just go to our park for a gentle stroll and a cup of tea (dog free) in the cafe every so often, but I really don't have an issue with park runs for a short time once a week.

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:23

Ginmonkeyagain · 20/07/2024 13:20

No. They are saying of parkrun bothers them they should use it at a different time.

Different.

Rather than Park Run ensuring they do not prevent other park users from accessing the park.

Not so different.

rookiemere · 20/07/2024 13:24

Parkrun is an hour max, once a week. There are waves of runners, so if for example you wanted to cross a particular spot, you may have to wait a few minutes if it's at the point at which the bulk of runners pass it.

I love parkrun. I'm slow, oldish and fat and I still love it. It's a wonderful multicultural event, genuinely open to all and free which is just amazing. It has helped many people embrace a more active lifestyle and you can walk as well as run it.

As for complaining about having to park at the furthest car park, what on earth is wrong with you OP? You should try to find some joy in your life, not destroy that of others.

rookiemere · 20/07/2024 13:25

But I do agree parkrunners should be courteous to other path users and not assume they have priority.

brownbear201 · 20/07/2024 13:26

It's a couple of hours once a week at a scheduled time. Just walk your dog earlier/later or somewhere different on a Saturday morning. You can walk a dog anywhere.

Dog walkers are far, far more of an issue when it comes to taking over public spaces. The vast majority of them are inconsiderate and you cannot avoid them regardless of what time you go to the park.

Noshowlomo · 20/07/2024 13:26

Just don’t go during that hour or so. I live near a park with a park run, and just avoid it before 10am, it’s not hard.

Sloejelly · 20/07/2024 13:27

There are waves of runners, so if for example you wanted to cross a particular spot, you may have to wait a few minutes

Or the runners could be the ones to let them pass rather than expecting to have priority,

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