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What does ‘playing out’ mean?

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LemonzAndLimeAllTheTime · 17/07/2024 16:43

I am not a native and although most of the time I can pass, I sometimes fail on regional differences.

What does ‘playing out’ mean?

Is this a Northern thing?

Thanks 🙏

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AllyCart · 17/07/2024 16:44

Playing outside.

cupcaske123 · 17/07/2024 16:44

Playing outside

LemonzAndLimeAllTheTime · 17/07/2024 16:44

As in your garden?

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bergamotorange · 17/07/2024 16:44

Playing outside your own home/garden, usually on the street.

bergamotorange · 17/07/2024 16:45

LemonzAndLimeAllTheTime · 17/07/2024 16:44

As in your garden?

No, in public space.

cheesychipsontheoche · 17/07/2024 16:45

For kids - playing in the local area with friends probably without adult supervision

For adults - "are you playing out tonight" = are you coming out for a drink/night out

Allnewtometoo · 17/07/2024 16:45

I don't think its northern? It's used here where I live in Norfolk. Going out to play with friends

A friend will "call/knock/come round for you, to see if you can come out to play.

Ime at least

helpfulperson · 17/07/2024 16:46

I would say it's more than just playing outside. It's when a child goes out unsupervised and plays with other unsupervised children. Either in the street or playground etc.

Shallana · 17/07/2024 16:46

It just means children going outside to play with their friends, generally unsupervised.

This could involve them playing out in the street if you live in a cul de sac, or going to a local park/play area.

3WildOnes · 17/07/2024 16:47

Not in your garden. Local park, local green, fields, the pavement/Street outside your house.. usually somewhere very local and without adult supervision.

5128gap · 17/07/2024 16:47

To me it means playing outside, in and around your home, but not restricted to your garden and without adults being present. Usually refers to groups of children playing in the street.

SilverSimca · 17/07/2024 16:47

It isn't just northern, we say it/ said it in Essex.
It means playing outside, unsupervised, not in a garden, probably relatively close to the house eg the street, green areas/ nearby parks.

LemonzAndLimeAllTheTime · 17/07/2024 16:48

Thank you! I did try google first, but it had lots of random meanings!

I don't think we do this where I live. I’m in London and the roads are not safe.

Parents also always go to the park with the kids.

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PashaMinaMio · 17/07/2024 16:52

Where I lived in the South West as a kid it meant playing outside in the cul de sac unsupervised.

We played hopscotch, tag, rounders, roller skating etc. Mum called us in when it was getting near bed time.

Happy, safe small town life. So lucky to have those memories.

3WildOnes · 17/07/2024 16:54

I live in London and mine play out but we live in a fairly leafy part of SW London.
How old are your children OP?

LemonzAndLimeAllTheTime · 17/07/2024 16:57

@PashaMinaMio that sounds so lovely!

@3WildOnes mine are 10 and 12, so the oldest has just started going to the park with her friends sometimes. Mostly it is still gardens and visiting friends’ houses.

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BobbyBiscuits · 17/07/2024 16:58

It just means they're playing outdoors away from the home but usually not far. It often does imply playing in the street, but could be park, someone else's garden etc.
I think in inner cities it might be a less common phrase as where I live it would be 'going to the park', 'playing at Dave's' etc. though I think in cities, playing at someone's, could also mean playing outdoors near their home.
But playing in the street is quite uncommon nowadays unless in suburbs or more semi rural areas.

DinnaeFashYersel · 17/07/2024 17:01

Playing out / going to play in the local area with your friends without parental supervision.

Where I live in Scotland this starts at about age 6 (depending on the child and local traffic).

PuttingDownRoots · 17/07/2024 17:14

12yos "hang out" not "play out"

At 10yo, it would normally be stuff like bike rides, playing football, making up dances, hide and seek in the woods. A lot harder in traffic dense areas unfortunately!

Spidey66 · 17/07/2024 17:16

Not a parent but as a kid in London it meant playing on the street which occasionally meant going into friends houses. Never heard it used for adults.

TitInATrance · 17/07/2024 17:43

Another usage is “seeing how things play out”, waiting to see how a situation resolves in a given set of circumstances, or what the end result is.

longdistanceclaraclara · 17/07/2024 17:58

Playing out on the street. We used to as kids, lived in a cul de sac. My kids can't as they'd be squashed by cars.

It's not regional, it's locational.

cloudy477654 · 17/07/2024 17:59

Usually playing outside in the street/local area

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