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To ask your advice - stick or twist (job decision)

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Thisismyusernametoday1 · 16/07/2024 11:27

I’m in a dilemma about a job decision and would appreciate input.

I spent years in an organisation in an area I really enjoyed with good work/life balance and, eventually, decent pay. I’d gone as far as I could with my career development so switched to a related sector about 2 years ago and have been miserable since.

The role I’m in now was sold to me as very relevant to my previous experience and expertise but has turned out to be far from it. I still really struggle with the technical aspects and although I have voiced this, I have had no guidance or training to help me improve. I have gone from being extremely confident in my abilities and decision making in previous roles to feeling like I have nothing valuable to add.

A job recently came up that looked much more aligned to my interests and experience. I interviewed and was offered the job at the salary I asked for. However, the major drawback is that the job is 24 months fixed term. The team has said their intention is to extend the funding, but due to budgets this cannot be guaranteed.

For relevant context, I’m 33 and in a good relationship with my partner of 4 years. I’d like to start trying for a family in the next 12 months, but worried I’m going to be screwing myself over by taking the new job as occupational maternity pay won’t start until 12 months in post, and then the role could potentially end after 2 years. If I stayed, occupational maternity leave would count now and role would be guaranteed on return to work.

So… AIBU to take the new job?

OP posts:
paywalled · 16/07/2024 11:30

This is a no brainer, take the new job! If you're good they will likely make you permanent, and if not, at 33, the experience will be great for your CV.

Thisismyusernametoday1 · 16/07/2024 14:20

@paywalled Thank you! I’m sure I’m overthinking it, but worried I’ll be leaving a bad situation for an even worse one. I’m used to these sort of contracts in my previous organisation due to the way the funding is structured and it’s never been a problem being able to extend or made permanent. I think I’ve had a bit of a confidence knock so finding this really difficult to view objectively.

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Hillarious · 16/07/2024 14:45

I'd take the advice of @paywalled. Not all decisions you make in life are clear cut and obvious to make, and in this instance you have to acknowledge that and be happy with the decision you make, move on and not think about what-ifs.

I started a family just short of my 34th birthday, we moved out of London with two small kids. I had no job to go to, didn't work for six years (we had a third child) and I've since moved into a different sector for work and been quite happy (until the new "I'm 35 and know everything" boss started just under a year ago. Luckily retirement will get me out of here).

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