Yes, I know I'm being unreasonable and Facebook is crap really but it still hurts sometimes.
I don't get unfriended often & I know I'm not annoying on fb. I don't post that often, average 2-3 times a month, don't share crap memes, political rants etc, just an occasional post of what I've been up to. Usually when it happens it's understandable. For example, ex-husband of friend who deleted most of "her" friends when they split or someone who was never more than an acquaintance & I haven't seen or interacted with for years. I've never unfriended anyone, if I find someone annoying or boring I unfollow them instead.
However, sometimes I feel puzzled & a little paranoid. A friend of DH's unfriended me. We don't see him often but there are still occasions when we'll be together as a crowd. Tbh I've never liked him much, he has zero sense of humour, can be a bit standoffish & takes offence easily. Chances are I've done something minor, such as not liked one of his rants or not wished him happy birthday, so not too worried about him really but a bit irked iyswim.
However, I just noticed a mum I knew at DC's primary has unfriended me. Our DC's are all post high school now. I bump into her locally from time to time and & we interact occasionally on fb (we have ASD kids in common). I wouldn't be offended if I saw she'd unfriended everyone from the primary days but she hasn't (we have at least a dozen mutual friends). My dad died a few weeks ago and she offered condolences which I thanked her for but she must have unfriended shortly after. I've only posted a couple of time since. I did go on a preplanned holiday between dad's death & funeral so perhaps she thought it was inappropriate? (her mother died a few years ago & she still posts about it sometimes so maybe I hit a raw nerve). Only thing I can think of, unless of course she unfriended me in error? No loss as not a close friend but still can't help wondering.....