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Which would you choose...

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User1706 · 15/07/2024 15:37

My sons nursery went under earlier. We were heartbroken as our LO had made fantastic connections with the other children and they were just a genuinely very good nursery. There were also very practical for us as they were within walking distance (this is huge for me as I'm epileptic and cannot drive), plus they were also very flexible with hours, etc.

The manager and owner then made the decision to set up as childminders Their plan is to sell the large nursery building and set up somewhere much smaller. Currently they're still in the nursery but it is on the market. There prices went up and the group of children reduced from approx 10 per class to five in total (somedays I've noticed there are only 3 children including mine.) All that said they have delivered on everything they have promised they take my LO on excursions at least 2 out of 3 days per week (ie the beach, forests and local shows so more than the usual pop to town and park) they cook all their food fresh and give the children lots of individual attention.

We were (naively) surprised at how much this change affected our LO, they asked about their friends lots and just generally seemed unsettled this has calmed now, although we are still concerned about the mix of children. Whilst all lovely, our child will be 3 next month and on some days he may only be with very young children.

For this reason we looked at our catchment pre school who have given him a place from age 3. It's a lovely school and has all the usual bits you would expect in a good school/preschool. However, all our flexibility will be gone. Wrap-around care is book a week in advance and if it's full it's full and there is no none term time provision. The cost would be nil as we'd get the 3 year old funding, the only bit to pay would be the wraparound care which is £14 per day.

Point of this incredibly long thread? - I'm about to hand our nursery notice in this morning when LO has a berserk tantrum at the door (unusual) and the staff say it's best that I just leave quickly. He has then spilled the beans about big school so the manager calls and asks what's going on and then offers me the 30 funding where he is.... so which would you choose?

I've gone on but cons of current set up:
Expensive
Very few children my sons age
Slightly flakey owner
The unknown about there new building

Cons of pre school:
Much larger class sizes
Very school structured style (dinner with the whole school/no separate pre school toilets from what I could see)
Lack of flexibility
Another big change

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Stompythedinosaur · 15/07/2024 15:52

I'd change to the school nursery, but anticipate he might have a difficult few weeks over the transition.

Having no kids his age is a big problem for the childminder setting I think.

mynameisnot · 15/07/2024 16:32

Lack of provision outside term time could be difficult as out of school/holiday clubs often won't take kids younger than 5. This would be a deal breaker for me, but it depends on your job.

EatTheGnome · 15/07/2024 17:05

The preschool. Because you'd already decided it was best for LO and e knows its coming so I wouldn't change it again.

People who are new to the nursery/childminder will likely be enrolling younger children.

Ive presumed the preschool hours, whilst inconvenient, aren't actually unworkable because if the hours affected your job you'd have already made arrangements to work alternative hours.

User1706 · 15/07/2024 19:13

Sorry to drip feed... our school holiday child care (at least a large portion of) would have to be the current nursery. We can both take annual leave but both our leave wouldn't cover all school holidays and we don't have family on the doorstep.

This wouldn't be forever however, for that pre school year at least (he starts school at 4 anyways as is an August baby).

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