Obviously I’m BU as it has to be one or the other, but I’m just wondering if anyone else has felt like this? I lived alone for a while as an adult, and found it very lonely. Have also lived as an adult with family members, whom I love, and in various flatmate situations, with people I get on with (so the problem isn’t disliking the people I live with), which on balance I prefer. But sometimes I just wake up in the morning or come home in the evening hating the idea of having to make conversation and just have my habits observed - what I’m eating, how I’m spending my time, etc, I just want the freedom to do what I want without eyes on me. Which of course would point to living alone, which I could afford. But I know I really didn’t like it last time I did it.
Has anyone else felt like this, like it’s impossible to find a living situation that completely works for you? How did you resolve it? Is it basically something that can only be resolved by finding a romantic partner, and then you don’t feel crowded sometimes or get annoyed sometimes by having them around?